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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 754581" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>You got really good advice. Unless you are as rich as Oprah (first person I thought of who has serious money) the party will end for your daughter. There is no way on Earth for you to make it all better. I wish there were, for the sakes of all the mothers here!!!</p><p></p><p>You will have no choice but to stop and you may end up homeless yourself at your age and have to do what she will have to do in order to stay afloat.</p><p>I am assuming your daughter probably has a drug problem and/or mental illness. Excessive, daily pot use is addiction. Doesn't sound like she works much.</p><p></p><p>If your daughter is an unfit mother you can talk to a lawyer and attempt to get custody. You could then receive monetary benefits for raising your grands. If you don't want to go to court against your daughter then AppliCori explained what your daughter will need to do to survive.</p><p></p><p>I have two daughters. Kay has always been a problem and is a pot addict at the very least. She is married to a horrible man. I have another daughter Amy who is the opposite. Lee and Kay are homeless. We stopped giving money. We were running out and she was awful to us as well. Kay has a son. Amy has guardianship of him now. Kay lives on the streets of California in an old camper so Lee and Kay allowed Amy to raise their son "until it's better."</p><p></p><p>But Amy is going to go for custody. She has a lawyer. Kay does not suspect.</p><p></p><p>We do what we feel we must. And we do what is possible. We can not save adults, even our children.</p><p></p><p>If drugs is an issue I strongly suggest Al Anon. My husband and I both go every week. We also see a therapist which also helps. in my opinion this us too hard to do alone. Are you getting help? Be kind to YOU. You deserve it. You are a good person. If God is in your life, try giving your daughter to God. My husband and I did. We couldn't help Kay, but God can if she is willing to hear Him.</p><p></p><p>I wish you the best. Blessings and be well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 754581, member: 23706"] You got really good advice. Unless you are as rich as Oprah (first person I thought of who has serious money) the party will end for your daughter. There is no way on Earth for you to make it all better. I wish there were, for the sakes of all the mothers here!!! You will have no choice but to stop and you may end up homeless yourself at your age and have to do what she will have to do in order to stay afloat. I am assuming your daughter probably has a drug problem and/or mental illness. Excessive, daily pot use is addiction. Doesn't sound like she works much. If your daughter is an unfit mother you can talk to a lawyer and attempt to get custody. You could then receive monetary benefits for raising your grands. If you don't want to go to court against your daughter then AppliCori explained what your daughter will need to do to survive. I have two daughters. Kay has always been a problem and is a pot addict at the very least. She is married to a horrible man. I have another daughter Amy who is the opposite. Lee and Kay are homeless. We stopped giving money. We were running out and she was awful to us as well. Kay has a son. Amy has guardianship of him now. Kay lives on the streets of California in an old camper so Lee and Kay allowed Amy to raise their son "until it's better." But Amy is going to go for custody. She has a lawyer. Kay does not suspect. We do what we feel we must. And we do what is possible. We can not save adults, even our children. If drugs is an issue I strongly suggest Al Anon. My husband and I both go every week. We also see a therapist which also helps. in my opinion this us too hard to do alone. Are you getting help? Be kind to YOU. You deserve it. You are a good person. If God is in your life, try giving your daughter to God. My husband and I did. We couldn't help Kay, but God can if she is willing to hear Him. I wish you the best. Blessings and be well. [/QUOTE]
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