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Am I steering my own, true course or heading for the rocks?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 742647" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa I think you need to put your foot down with M.</p><p></p><p>"I am taking over with J. I am sorry you dont like it, but I am getting a housekeeper and others to fix broken things in the house. I need to be in charge by myself of my relationship with my son. Yes, I let you become involved before but that wont work anymore. I love you but this has to be between me and J. I hope I have your understanding but if not, I still have to do this."</p><p></p><p>M. will hate it and argue and do what you so dislike...argue over it. I know you hate conflict. (Secretly, conflict scares me to death...but I stand up when I have to, shaking inside) But again in my opinion M has too much control over your relationship with J. I would never allow this to happen with a boyfriend and my own kids if the man had not been in my child's life forever. He causes a lot of problems between you two. Actually it is up to you to set a boundary with M and only if you want to. But in my opinion he has no right to make you choose. I am not you...I am able to be firm when I have to. I have not paid any attention to my Hub or my other kids to stop talking to Bart. I wont let them tell me to cut off my son. And they know it so they dont really bother me about it.</p><p></p><p> This is totally your choice and we all support any decision you make. You know that.</p><p></p><p>Lots and lots and lots of prayers and love that all goes well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 742647, member: 1550"] Copa I think you need to put your foot down with M. "I am taking over with J. I am sorry you dont like it, but I am getting a housekeeper and others to fix broken things in the house. I need to be in charge by myself of my relationship with my son. Yes, I let you become involved before but that wont work anymore. I love you but this has to be between me and J. I hope I have your understanding but if not, I still have to do this." M. will hate it and argue and do what you so dislike...argue over it. I know you hate conflict. (Secretly, conflict scares me to death...but I stand up when I have to, shaking inside) But again in my opinion M has too much control over your relationship with J. I would never allow this to happen with a boyfriend and my own kids if the man had not been in my child's life forever. He causes a lot of problems between you two. Actually it is up to you to set a boundary with M and only if you want to. But in my opinion he has no right to make you choose. I am not you...I am able to be firm when I have to. I have not paid any attention to my Hub or my other kids to stop talking to Bart. I wont let them tell me to cut off my son. And they know it so they dont really bother me about it. This is totally your choice and we all support any decision you make. You know that. Lots and lots and lots of prayers and love that all goes well. [/QUOTE]
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