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Am I steering my own, true course or heading for the rocks?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 742653" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I was just on another thread. This mother expressed exactly how it feels to be me. All of it. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">How I flail and try to solve, to senselessly save. And what is the result: I cannot scapegoat M for this. He has only stood by me. </span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I did not know my own voice. I could not feel my own wants. I was unable to identify let alone enforce boundaries that I needed. I looked to and relied upon M. He does not bear responsibility here.</span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I have to remind myself, again and again, that we are not in the worst spot here. We are recovering. We have made some good choices. That house was a good choice. It could give us neutral ground if we are able to structure it right; in the way that you have been advocating. Thank you.</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 742653, member: 18958"] [LEFT][COLOR=rgb(20, 20, 20)]I was just on another thread. This mother expressed exactly how it feels to be me. All of it. How I flail and try to solve, to senselessly save. And what is the result: I cannot scapegoat M for this. He has only stood by me. I did not know my own voice. I could not feel my own wants. I was unable to identify let alone enforce boundaries that I needed. I looked to and relied upon M. He does not bear responsibility here. I have to remind myself, again and again, that we are not in the worst spot here. We are recovering. We have made some good choices. That house was a good choice. It could give us neutral ground if we are able to structure it right; in the way that you have been advocating. Thank you.[/COLOR][/LEFT] [/QUOTE]
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