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Am I steering my own, true course or heading for the rocks?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 742681" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>M is not involved. He is not involved in this pre-negotiation, he is not going tomorrow, he will not be involved in determining the terms, and he will not be involved in deciding there is agreement. There will be a conversation, the three of us, if the outcome is that we will try that he come back.Thank you for this.</p><p>Each of us are clear and open about our love for each other.</p><p>He knows what he means to me, and I know what I mean to him.</p><p>This is interesting. Each of us holds the trump card which is our love, one for the other. But we have come to treat each other as people who do not have intrinsic value to the other. He has not considered the effect on me, of what he does. And I have had to drum out my concern about the effect on him, of what I have chosen to do, in order to do it.</p><p>Yes.</p><p></p><p>But smithmom. I still don't know what my bottom line is. What I want. I guess it is to be in communication. But beyond that I do not know. I don't. Really. I know what others tell me I should need. But I don't know the one thing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 742681, member: 18958"] M is not involved. He is not involved in this pre-negotiation, he is not going tomorrow, he will not be involved in determining the terms, and he will not be involved in deciding there is agreement. There will be a conversation, the three of us, if the outcome is that we will try that he come back.Thank you for this. Each of us are clear and open about our love for each other. He knows what he means to me, and I know what I mean to him. This is interesting. Each of us holds the trump card which is our love, one for the other. But we have come to treat each other as people who do not have intrinsic value to the other. He has not considered the effect on me, of what he does. And I have had to drum out my concern about the effect on him, of what I have chosen to do, in order to do it. Yes. But smithmom. I still don't know what my bottom line is. What I want. I guess it is to be in communication. But beyond that I do not know. I don't. Really. I know what others tell me I should need. But I don't know the one thing. [/QUOTE]
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