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Am I steering my own, true course or heading for the rocks?
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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 742941" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>I'm caught up.</p><p>A walk in pharmacy would be great. </p><p></p><p>Copa, I understand you going round and round in your head..</p><p>He needs to grow up, but you want him healthy.</p><p>For him the health is also a long term concern, not just well but, alive. You are between a rock and a hard place.</p><p>I know you want to be tough and say grow the heck up. take responsibility. Maybe he is sub-consciously afraid of his reality? That if he gets on his medication plan and then falls off it he will quickly decline? </p><p>From you I hear, I am willing to make many concessions BUT I have to know he is taking his pills and keeping his long term health safe until there is a cure. </p><p>Now how to achieve that. </p><p>I know he is 30 but, with this illness is he really a scared kid? I am not trying to give him an excuse but, I know young adults with horrible diseases ( variations of muscular dystrophy) all of them by 19 are on anxiety medications. They are afraid they will die in their sleep. Many of then sleep during the day because they are afraid to sleep at night. </p><p></p><p>Now about the rental property.. I still am going with my either or scenario if he decides to live there. Either keep it clean or pay for cleaner.</p><p></p><p>I also think you need to think of yourself and M too. </p><p>I know for myself I can take care of myself better when I know my kids are all taken care of. </p><p></p><p>Warm hugs, prayers and good wishes from across the miles.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 742941, member: 23103"] I'm caught up. A walk in pharmacy would be great. Copa, I understand you going round and round in your head.. He needs to grow up, but you want him healthy. For him the health is also a long term concern, not just well but, alive. You are between a rock and a hard place. I know you want to be tough and say grow the heck up. take responsibility. Maybe he is sub-consciously afraid of his reality? That if he gets on his medication plan and then falls off it he will quickly decline? From you I hear, I am willing to make many concessions BUT I have to know he is taking his pills and keeping his long term health safe until there is a cure. Now how to achieve that. I know he is 30 but, with this illness is he really a scared kid? I am not trying to give him an excuse but, I know young adults with horrible diseases ( variations of muscular dystrophy) all of them by 19 are on anxiety medications. They are afraid they will die in their sleep. Many of then sleep during the day because they are afraid to sleep at night. Now about the rental property.. I still am going with my either or scenario if he decides to live there. Either keep it clean or pay for cleaner. I also think you need to think of yourself and M too. I know for myself I can take care of myself better when I know my kids are all taken care of. Warm hugs, prayers and good wishes from across the miles. [/QUOTE]
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