Hi Deni
Please don't feel like a fake. I think posting here is a good way to journalize what is happening to us. I think reading others' posts and commenting is a good way for us to start to change. We see things so much clearer when they are not OUR problem. We are like why doesn't she just do this??? I still feel it is an invaluable service to others and to ourselves.
Just because we can't figure out our own stuff doesn't mean we can't help one another figure out their stuff!
Just know in all of this that YOUR intentions are good. I have to do that in my relationships with others in my life. That is where your responsibility ends. Your intentions are good.
Be good to yourself.
