It was so nice to get away, and the trip to Hawaii was beautiful, but 3 days before coming home, we find out that our house was trashed, my daughters husband stereo system stolen, along with our window into our basement broken.
We had the 15 yr old boy down the streetcheck the house daily, adn feed the cat. I spoke with his Mom and found out about all this. Obviously a party had happened the weekend we left. Our son had a party planned but at his own house. He had no key to get in, because we had all the locks changed before we left. Of course, memory serves us, prior to all locks changed he was coming into our home during the night before going to his job. I am sure now he took a new key esp. since husband never hid them while in the process of changing locks.
Anyway, the boy tells his Mom 4 days later about the mess in our house, she takes pics to show us when we get home, and so he isnt blamed for it. My difficult child son's wife has a baby 4 days after the party ( they took it by c section) . We call find out all this 3 days before coming home after daughter comes into town to meet her new nephew. After she investigated what was gone was he husband DJ stereo systme, broken glassware of hers stored in the basement, adn a basement window broke out, and a letter left pointing it towards my sister in law brother (long story there). Anyway she questions difficult child he denies it, she has an investigation, and in the meantime she finds her stuff that is missing in the back seat of his jeep. The house also had been cleaned and the garbage was in the backseat of his car. The cops are involved.
My easy child daughter then gave difficult child and out so officers wont press charges, now they are waiting to hear from us in regards to breaking and entering, because we did not give him permission to come in. Well I am left to deal with this crap as ususal, not going to. Spoke with difficult child, and told him if it werent for his son, cause wife isnt telling the truth either I would turn him in. I told him the next time we will file charges.
AS far as the 15 yo guess my difficult child then tried to blame the incident on him via the officer that told the boys mom. She tells me that giving her son 25.00 for the week isnt going to cut the issues they have had to deal with this last week. I understand how she feels, but the pay is not her decision to make, and I personaly did nothing to bring this on. I listened then she became verbally nasty, and I had to hang up on her.
Then while we were gone difficult child had contact with his ex g/f , that his other children, that he got to talk with. Her boyfriend. that she went back to after a fight that was phsysical , wakes me out of a dead sleep, cussing me out.
OK so why am I so nice and put up with the abuse of my difficult child son, friend down the street, adn my grandchildrens MOms new boyfriend?
Jen
We had the 15 yr old boy down the streetcheck the house daily, adn feed the cat. I spoke with his Mom and found out about all this. Obviously a party had happened the weekend we left. Our son had a party planned but at his own house. He had no key to get in, because we had all the locks changed before we left. Of course, memory serves us, prior to all locks changed he was coming into our home during the night before going to his job. I am sure now he took a new key esp. since husband never hid them while in the process of changing locks.
Anyway, the boy tells his Mom 4 days later about the mess in our house, she takes pics to show us when we get home, and so he isnt blamed for it. My difficult child son's wife has a baby 4 days after the party ( they took it by c section) . We call find out all this 3 days before coming home after daughter comes into town to meet her new nephew. After she investigated what was gone was he husband DJ stereo systme, broken glassware of hers stored in the basement, adn a basement window broke out, and a letter left pointing it towards my sister in law brother (long story there). Anyway she questions difficult child he denies it, she has an investigation, and in the meantime she finds her stuff that is missing in the back seat of his jeep. The house also had been cleaned and the garbage was in the backseat of his car. The cops are involved.
My easy child daughter then gave difficult child and out so officers wont press charges, now they are waiting to hear from us in regards to breaking and entering, because we did not give him permission to come in. Well I am left to deal with this crap as ususal, not going to. Spoke with difficult child, and told him if it werent for his son, cause wife isnt telling the truth either I would turn him in. I told him the next time we will file charges.
AS far as the 15 yo guess my difficult child then tried to blame the incident on him via the officer that told the boys mom. She tells me that giving her son 25.00 for the week isnt going to cut the issues they have had to deal with this last week. I understand how she feels, but the pay is not her decision to make, and I personaly did nothing to bring this on. I listened then she became verbally nasty, and I had to hang up on her.
Then while we were gone difficult child had contact with his ex g/f , that his other children, that he got to talk with. Her boyfriend. that she went back to after a fight that was phsysical , wakes me out of a dead sleep, cussing me out.
OK so why am I so nice and put up with the abuse of my difficult child son, friend down the street, adn my grandchildrens MOms new boyfriend?
Jen
