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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 751328" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>KSM I'm so sorry to read this. There is such a thing as the end of your rope and sounds like you've hit it. We did with ours long ago...we put ours out at 19 if you'll recall and it was hard...so very, very hard. But you have to do what's best for YOU now. </p><p></p><p>You are old enough to be retired and have a peaceful empty nest. Last time I let son at home I made him give me $ like putting it in a bank until he had enough for a place. I told him he could have the $ any time he wanted...but that would be the day he moved out. </p><p></p><p>In the end he was homeless on and off for a good long while. But not forever. He has a place with his wife's(!) family and they are moving back here soon from her home in Colorado. We're worried, but well, what will be will be. </p><p></p><p>In my opinion, you should stick to your guns about the move out date for your older gd and you should not let younger in. Your house should be YOURS and safe when you are away. </p><p></p><p>Have a good cry. You've earned it. Then take care of you and your husband. Your adult grands can take care of themselves.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 751328, member: 17309"] KSM I'm so sorry to read this. There is such a thing as the end of your rope and sounds like you've hit it. We did with ours long ago...we put ours out at 19 if you'll recall and it was hard...so very, very hard. But you have to do what's best for YOU now. You are old enough to be retired and have a peaceful empty nest. Last time I let son at home I made him give me $ like putting it in a bank until he had enough for a place. I told him he could have the $ any time he wanted...but that would be the day he moved out. In the end he was homeless on and off for a good long while. But not forever. He has a place with his wife's(!) family and they are moving back here soon from her home in Colorado. We're worried, but well, what will be will be. In my opinion, you should stick to your guns about the move out date for your older gd and you should not let younger in. Your house should be YOURS and safe when you are away. Have a good cry. You've earned it. Then take care of you and your husband. Your adult grands can take care of themselves. [/QUOTE]
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