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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 192971" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>I recommend Unhappy Teenagers by William Glasser</p><p></p><p>I believe it applies to all ages. The message is that your only influence is a good relationship where he feels understood and sees you as a help. problem solving focuses on both yours and his concerns , by talking and chatting with him like you would with a friend or your neighbours 25 yo child he will start to see you as a person who also has needs. it is a process that he needs to learn to trust , that cooperation is the way , win-win , not win-lose.</p><p>I think Byron Katie is helpful in a liberating way , getting rid of our fears and emotional baggage and related suffering so we can relate to our child in creative ways and lots of patience. Not easy</p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 192971, member: 10"] Hi, I recommend Unhappy Teenagers by William Glasser I believe it applies to all ages. The message is that your only influence is a good relationship where he feels understood and sees you as a help. problem solving focuses on both yours and his concerns , by talking and chatting with him like you would with a friend or your neighbours 25 yo child he will start to see you as a person who also has needs. it is a process that he needs to learn to trust , that cooperation is the way , win-win , not win-lose. I think Byron Katie is helpful in a liberating way , getting rid of our fears and emotional baggage and related suffering so we can relate to our child in creative ways and lots of patience. Not easy Allan [/QUOTE]
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