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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 722156" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Yes. I can see this. Me searching solution for him is a huge problem. But what i see us doing is recovering ourselves in this, as we pull back more and more from defining our problem and defining ourselves in terms of them.</p><p></p><p>Sam. My sister, i believe is narcissistic. I do not have a relationship with her. She will not allow it. she feels mistreated by me. because after a long life, i called STOP on her...by putting up boundaries based upon my own interpretation of events, related to the vulnerability of my mother.</p><p></p><p>there are so many issues here. my mother, a very forceful person, could never protect herself from my sister fully, kind of like the tale of the snake crossing the river on the back of the turtle i think it was. </p><p></p><p>why did you do that, said the afflicted turtle, dying from the venomous sting? </p><p></p><p>because it's my nature i'm a snake.</p><p></p><p>our children are our kids. we love them. </p><p></p><p>the only conditions are we not be stung to death as we carry them.</p><p></p><p>only time will tell if our kids' issues are intransigent or developmental. but the issue is the same: We cannot for them or us permit them to damage us; i believe the truth is almost always the best way..because clarity illuminates a path.</p><p></p><p>our own. (which is more or less what you said. i agree.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 722156, member: 18958"] Yes. I can see this. Me searching solution for him is a huge problem. But what i see us doing is recovering ourselves in this, as we pull back more and more from defining our problem and defining ourselves in terms of them. Sam. My sister, i believe is narcissistic. I do not have a relationship with her. She will not allow it. she feels mistreated by me. because after a long life, i called STOP on her...by putting up boundaries based upon my own interpretation of events, related to the vulnerability of my mother. there are so many issues here. my mother, a very forceful person, could never protect herself from my sister fully, kind of like the tale of the snake crossing the river on the back of the turtle i think it was. why did you do that, said the afflicted turtle, dying from the venomous sting? because it's my nature i'm a snake. our children are our kids. we love them. the only conditions are we not be stung to death as we carry them. only time will tell if our kids' issues are intransigent or developmental. but the issue is the same: We cannot for them or us permit them to damage us; i believe the truth is almost always the best way..because clarity illuminates a path. our own. (which is more or less what you said. i agree.) [/QUOTE]
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