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<blockquote data-quote="Heavy hearted" data-source="post: 739036" data-attributes="member: 23067"><p>Why does it have to be so hard? My son continues to call his sister from jail. I still can't and won't talk to him. I need time to let my heart mend and get my life back. My husband is done with him. He even asked me to please not mention his name again in conversation. I know my husband is hurting and I will grant his wishes. My husband had a heart attack last time our son got put in prison. I will always love my son, but there is NOTHING that I can do for him. When he was in prison the 1st time, I jumped through hoops. Put money on books, talk to him multiple times during the time he was there, ordered books, etc. In the journal that I wrote for him last time he was in prison, I explained that I will choose what to do and not do for him. The 1st thing I did was change my cell#. At this time, I have decided to write letters. I am waiting to see what the court decides on how long he will be in prison. Decided on No phone calls, it would kill me to hear the sadness and hopelessness in his voice. Trying to stay strong. </p><p>After reading many post on this site, I wonder if I will ever get as strong as some of you on here. I guess only time will tell. Hats off to those that remain strong.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heavy hearted, post: 739036, member: 23067"] Why does it have to be so hard? My son continues to call his sister from jail. I still can't and won't talk to him. I need time to let my heart mend and get my life back. My husband is done with him. He even asked me to please not mention his name again in conversation. I know my husband is hurting and I will grant his wishes. My husband had a heart attack last time our son got put in prison. I will always love my son, but there is NOTHING that I can do for him. When he was in prison the 1st time, I jumped through hoops. Put money on books, talk to him multiple times during the time he was there, ordered books, etc. In the journal that I wrote for him last time he was in prison, I explained that I will choose what to do and not do for him. The 1st thing I did was change my cell#. At this time, I have decided to write letters. I am waiting to see what the court decides on how long he will be in prison. Decided on No phone calls, it would kill me to hear the sadness and hopelessness in his voice. Trying to stay strong. After reading many post on this site, I wonder if I will ever get as strong as some of you on here. I guess only time will tell. Hats off to those that remain strong. [/QUOTE]
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