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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 758807" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Today I sent my daughter a text asking her to talk. I had to take a break from her because of her abuse and lies. She is lucky that I am even talking to her. We talked and discussed our latest fight and the bottom line is that the root of the fights are because of her constant lies and nasty behavior towards me and staying with a guy that is totally awful. My daughter has what I call reptilian language, she is a dirty fighter. She is extremely bright so she has the right fighting words to attack even when she is in the wrong, there I am speechless again, digging for words and in a state of shock over her brilliant use of fighting words. Why on earth did she not become a defense attorney. The last time I did not talk with her for over 3 months, it helped her get rid of her belligerence towards me. I did not talk with her for 2 months this time and all I heard was angry in her voice. She was livid that her dad and I did not talk with her. What was there to say anyway? She just fires back with more reptilian language... I just don't have the fighting soul. My husband did not say a word to her but he has the right words for her, I am always amazed with the words he can come up with that lays her flat and sets things right. My son also had that ability to get to the bottom of the BS and clear the air. With my daughter, I don't think there is any air to clear, she will just pollute it again and again.</p><p>I look in the mirror and I see an ancient woman. A woman that has buried one child and has another one trying to kick her into an early grave. My daughter will do me dirty and have the words to make it seem like I am the one that did her dirty. She does not think that her lies should bother me, like I should just listen to them and go about my business and believe them. I am so wore out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 758807, member: 22416"] Today I sent my daughter a text asking her to talk. I had to take a break from her because of her abuse and lies. She is lucky that I am even talking to her. We talked and discussed our latest fight and the bottom line is that the root of the fights are because of her constant lies and nasty behavior towards me and staying with a guy that is totally awful. My daughter has what I call reptilian language, she is a dirty fighter. She is extremely bright so she has the right fighting words to attack even when she is in the wrong, there I am speechless again, digging for words and in a state of shock over her brilliant use of fighting words. Why on earth did she not become a defense attorney. The last time I did not talk with her for over 3 months, it helped her get rid of her belligerence towards me. I did not talk with her for 2 months this time and all I heard was angry in her voice. She was livid that her dad and I did not talk with her. What was there to say anyway? She just fires back with more reptilian language... I just don't have the fighting soul. My husband did not say a word to her but he has the right words for her, I am always amazed with the words he can come up with that lays her flat and sets things right. My son also had that ability to get to the bottom of the BS and clear the air. With my daughter, I don't think there is any air to clear, she will just pollute it again and again. I look in the mirror and I see an ancient woman. A woman that has buried one child and has another one trying to kick her into an early grave. My daughter will do me dirty and have the words to make it seem like I am the one that did her dirty. She does not think that her lies should bother me, like I should just listen to them and go about my business and believe them. I am so wore out. [/QUOTE]
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