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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 755257" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I think you have a choice about how you want to hold this, understand her behavior, and respond to it. </p><p></p><p>I think your daughter wants to be connected with you and wants your approval. On the other hand I could see that you could respond to her lies, as a manipulation of your good will.</p><p></p><p>If I saw it this way I would feel anger, frustration and distress. If I acknowledged that at the bottom of things my daughter wanted me to love her, and approve of her, and she loved me, I would feel greater love and acceptance for her, and for myself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 755257, member: 18958"] I think you have a choice about how you want to hold this, understand her behavior, and respond to it. I think your daughter wants to be connected with you and wants your approval. On the other hand I could see that you could respond to her lies, as a manipulation of your good will. If I saw it this way I would feel anger, frustration and distress. If I acknowledged that at the bottom of things my daughter wanted me to love her, and approve of her, and she loved me, I would feel greater love and acceptance for her, and for myself. [/QUOTE]
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