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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 755286" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Copa, I have looked at my daughter's lies from all angles. I have been to therapy several time over what to do about it. Is it helping her if I just ignore the lies or do I call her out on them each time and chance a full blow out? I have done both. I have used every and any method to help her stop lying. I believe it is part of her bipolar. I do have a clue when it is non stop lying, the is manic and rambling. I have seen her mindfully try to stop. She once told me a huge lie about where she got her hair cut and then stopped herself and told me the truth. She back tracked in another voice. I see that she was trying to work on it and it is very hard for her to do. My husband says she has a lapse in her brain or she gets short curcuit. Even though the lies or horrible, the belligerence is much better. NO way do I tolerate the belligerence, I have ignored her for 3 months over the belligerence and can do it again. If I did not see her trying to help herself I would not see her as often.</p><p>With me just letting the lies fly by, is that really helping her? Does it help me? For now I am choosing to just let it fly, tomorrow I may call her on the carpet and watch her squirm and get nervous. I believe it is another disorder all to itself, probably connected to bipolar or borderline but it own illness. I have explained in detail to my daughter how lies stress the body, mind and soul out, how it ruins your cells and how awful it is in the spirit world. Yes she continues. How ill is that to continue doing something that is destroying you? And while I am complaining about this, I am saying a prayer of graditude that this is all I am complaining about because years before, the stuff she was doing would cause people reading about it to lose all color in their face.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 755286, member: 22416"] Copa, I have looked at my daughter's lies from all angles. I have been to therapy several time over what to do about it. Is it helping her if I just ignore the lies or do I call her out on them each time and chance a full blow out? I have done both. I have used every and any method to help her stop lying. I believe it is part of her bipolar. I do have a clue when it is non stop lying, the is manic and rambling. I have seen her mindfully try to stop. She once told me a huge lie about where she got her hair cut and then stopped herself and told me the truth. She back tracked in another voice. I see that she was trying to work on it and it is very hard for her to do. My husband says she has a lapse in her brain or she gets short curcuit. Even though the lies or horrible, the belligerence is much better. NO way do I tolerate the belligerence, I have ignored her for 3 months over the belligerence and can do it again. If I did not see her trying to help herself I would not see her as often. With me just letting the lies fly by, is that really helping her? Does it help me? For now I am choosing to just let it fly, tomorrow I may call her on the carpet and watch her squirm and get nervous. I believe it is another disorder all to itself, probably connected to bipolar or borderline but it own illness. I have explained in detail to my daughter how lies stress the body, mind and soul out, how it ruins your cells and how awful it is in the spirit world. Yes she continues. How ill is that to continue doing something that is destroying you? And while I am complaining about this, I am saying a prayer of graditude that this is all I am complaining about because years before, the stuff she was doing would cause people reading about it to lose all color in their face. [/QUOTE]
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