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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714930" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>For borderline, if she is in treatment and making progress she should be getting a job. Also, it takes years for a reluctant borderline to make any progress. It is probably a good plan to never live wirh her again.</p><p></p><p>Unfortunately, often the sad, sad fact is we cant save our grands. Grandparents have no rights.</p><p></p><p>I am thinking the kids need a perm home with somebody more stable, not reunification. Your daughtler is hitting middle age and still doesnt have her act together. You know she will find another loser. She might never get any better. But the kids need stability, even if its on the east coast and far away.</p><p></p><p>I hope daughter does right by her kids and that you can stand strong and tell your daughter no.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714930, member: 1550"] For borderline, if she is in treatment and making progress she should be getting a job. Also, it takes years for a reluctant borderline to make any progress. It is probably a good plan to never live wirh her again. Unfortunately, often the sad, sad fact is we cant save our grands. Grandparents have no rights. I am thinking the kids need a perm home with somebody more stable, not reunification. Your daughtler is hitting middle age and still doesnt have her act together. You know she will find another loser. She might never get any better. But the kids need stability, even if its on the east coast and far away. I hope daughter does right by her kids and that you can stand strong and tell your daughter no. [/QUOTE]
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