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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 755650" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>He didn't call which I figured he would not. I so agree about him not getting into a relationship. He has always been this way. He will never just learn to love himself. He refuses to make male friends by getting involved in sober activities. Says he needs a girl to feel complete but then in a few weeks goes back to booze and well it all falls apart. I don't know when he will stop this cycle. Rarely if ever goes to meetings or even sees his sponsor. Caught him in a lie 2 weeks ago when he asked if I would send him an Uber card to see his sponsor. When he called the last time and was telling us about his upcoming trip to see his female friend I asked him when the last time was he seen his sponsor and he said "oh it has been awhile" I said well you lied to me then because you asked for an Uber card to meet with him just this past Thursday.... he knew I caught him. </p><p>Can't trust him so why do I bother thinking he changed. </p><p>He truly did sound happy to be sober though on the phone 2 weeks ago but then life was good is how he put it... He was sober and going to meet his female friend and they discussed getting into a relationship.. Fast forward to 4 days later and he didn't go on the trip and is now back to his dark place because whatever happened between them crushed him. Thanks for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 755650, member: 22817"] He didn't call which I figured he would not. I so agree about him not getting into a relationship. He has always been this way. He will never just learn to love himself. He refuses to make male friends by getting involved in sober activities. Says he needs a girl to feel complete but then in a few weeks goes back to booze and well it all falls apart. I don't know when he will stop this cycle. Rarely if ever goes to meetings or even sees his sponsor. Caught him in a lie 2 weeks ago when he asked if I would send him an Uber card to see his sponsor. When he called the last time and was telling us about his upcoming trip to see his female friend I asked him when the last time was he seen his sponsor and he said "oh it has been awhile" I said well you lied to me then because you asked for an Uber card to meet with him just this past Thursday.... he knew I caught him. Can't trust him so why do I bother thinking he changed. He truly did sound happy to be sober though on the phone 2 weeks ago but then life was good is how he put it... He was sober and going to meet his female friend and they discussed getting into a relationship.. Fast forward to 4 days later and he didn't go on the trip and is now back to his dark place because whatever happened between them crushed him. Thanks for listening. [/QUOTE]
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