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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 755656" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>It's possible that maybe the girl he was talking to suggested he not come to visit. We all know how one person can think the relationship is solid and going somewhere and unknowingly to us, all of a sudden the other person pulls away. So, maybe rather than thinking he's relapsed, maybe it's that things changed quickly insofar as the girlfriend's feelings are concerned and she felt it was too much too soon and he needs time to process that before speaking with you because he feels rejected or played a fool for thinking things were better than they were.</p><p></p><p>Easier said than done but I would try not to imagine the worst case scenario and if you aren't strong enough to talk to him tonight, let your husband begin the conversation to feel things out and then join in afterwards when/if you feel stronger.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 755656, member: 23405"] It's possible that maybe the girl he was talking to suggested he not come to visit. We all know how one person can think the relationship is solid and going somewhere and unknowingly to us, all of a sudden the other person pulls away. So, maybe rather than thinking he's relapsed, maybe it's that things changed quickly insofar as the girlfriend's feelings are concerned and she felt it was too much too soon and he needs time to process that before speaking with you because he feels rejected or played a fool for thinking things were better than they were. Easier said than done but I would try not to imagine the worst case scenario and if you aren't strong enough to talk to him tonight, let your husband begin the conversation to feel things out and then join in afterwards when/if you feel stronger. [/QUOTE]
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