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<blockquote data-quote="tryingtobestrong" data-source="post: 755668" data-attributes="member: 22817"><p>Just wanted to add an update... he never called. Husband called last night again as well and he won't answer.</p><p>I am tired of the cycle with him. He calls that he is finally sober and then we assist a little with getting him back on his feet. (I mean just a little- we don't pay his rent in full or anything- just a little help- ) He usually gets sober when there is a relationship that is going well. As soon as that falters he is back down in the hole again and returns to his booze. Gets out of it, finds a girl, repeat... </p><p>He will be 26 in a few months. Then on his own for health insurance. </p><p>If he calls, I so want to say 'Do you not see your own pattern?? Maybe you should get help to see why you always need to be in a relationship and why as soon as it falters you reach for booze?? Maybe you should work a program? Take your antabuse like the doctor wants you to and get a sponsor?? NOPE! He does it his way.</p><p>Sick of it.</p><p>So, I will not reach out. He may be embarrassed because he relapsed. I am embarrassed for even helping the little I did. My parents on the other hand helped him a lot more and now he will rack his credit cards right back up again. Praying I could be all wrong.</p><p>I do know that he did relapse. I found out through a friend that has a contact with him. He told that friend he had a rough patch this past week and is trying to get back on track.</p><p>I do pray and know that it is in God's timing.</p><p>Thank you all for listening</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tryingtobestrong, post: 755668, member: 22817"] Just wanted to add an update... he never called. Husband called last night again as well and he won't answer. I am tired of the cycle with him. He calls that he is finally sober and then we assist a little with getting him back on his feet. (I mean just a little- we don't pay his rent in full or anything- just a little help- ) He usually gets sober when there is a relationship that is going well. As soon as that falters he is back down in the hole again and returns to his booze. Gets out of it, finds a girl, repeat... He will be 26 in a few months. Then on his own for health insurance. If he calls, I so want to say 'Do you not see your own pattern?? Maybe you should get help to see why you always need to be in a relationship and why as soon as it falters you reach for booze?? Maybe you should work a program? Take your antabuse like the doctor wants you to and get a sponsor?? NOPE! He does it his way. Sick of it. So, I will not reach out. He may be embarrassed because he relapsed. I am embarrassed for even helping the little I did. My parents on the other hand helped him a lot more and now he will rack his credit cards right back up again. Praying I could be all wrong. I do know that he did relapse. I found out through a friend that has a contact with him. He told that friend he had a rough patch this past week and is trying to get back on track. I do pray and know that it is in God's timing. Thank you all for listening [/QUOTE]
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