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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 235220" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Emttori, </p><p>my son was like that as a baby, and we didn't have any death issues, so in my humble opinion, I'm not sure there's a cause and effect there, or if there is, it's just an exaggeration of her normal processing.</p><p>I bought a Snugli and carried him in that, but I still had to hug him, hard, when I was wearing it or he would scream. If I did a load of wash and just let him sit against my chest or stomach in the Snugli, he would scream bloody murder. I even tried going to the bathroom while wearing it and it hurt my back (sheesh,the things we mothers do!) and had to put him on the floor and just let him scream.</p><p>He also had very bad reflux and digestive problems. Still has digestive problems but they are better.</p><p>I think that because your daughter is school age, and expected to conform, that's why some of these behaviors are more noticable. People let us get away with-murder with-toddlers' behavior because todders are so unpredictable. And you get used to the behaviors.</p><p>Then, when they're placed in a social setting with-clear boundaries, they stand out like an odd-colored lightbulb.</p><p>That's my 2-cents worth. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>I would find a child psychiatric and neuropsychologist and get her tested.</p><p> </p><p>by the way, I commend you on going to marriage counseling and implementing the suggestions from the therapist. It sounds like you really follow through. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>That will come in handy in the next few yrs, with-your difficult child ...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 235220, member: 3419"] Emttori, my son was like that as a baby, and we didn't have any death issues, so in my humble opinion, I'm not sure there's a cause and effect there, or if there is, it's just an exaggeration of her normal processing. I bought a Snugli and carried him in that, but I still had to hug him, hard, when I was wearing it or he would scream. If I did a load of wash and just let him sit against my chest or stomach in the Snugli, he would scream bloody murder. I even tried going to the bathroom while wearing it and it hurt my back (sheesh,the things we mothers do!) and had to put him on the floor and just let him scream. He also had very bad reflux and digestive problems. Still has digestive problems but they are better. I think that because your daughter is school age, and expected to conform, that's why some of these behaviors are more noticable. People let us get away with-murder with-toddlers' behavior because todders are so unpredictable. And you get used to the behaviors. Then, when they're placed in a social setting with-clear boundaries, they stand out like an odd-colored lightbulb. That's my 2-cents worth. :) I would find a child psychiatric and neuropsychologist and get her tested. by the way, I commend you on going to marriage counseling and implementing the suggestions from the therapist. It sounds like you really follow through. :) That will come in handy in the next few yrs, with-your difficult child ... [/QUOTE]
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