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<blockquote data-quote="Idon’t-know" data-source="post: 752533" data-attributes="member: 24599"><p>Thank you so much everyone for taking time to respond. I didn’t mention but my son has just turned 20. I have taken his vape away and I gave him an ultimatum that he had to clean his room with a deadline or I would be going in. He told me he vacuumed but it was clearly not true so I went in and cleaned and dusted. I had warned him if it wasn’t done I would be doing it and I followed through. I have had him at a doctor several times when he was younger because of his dyslexia and sensory processing concerns. He went to a special school where he learned to use Dragon software and got lots of one on one. He has also suffered from a sensory issue related to clothing etc. Which he seemed to work through. He use to be fairly social but now refuses to see his friends. They ask about him often. I recently took him back to the physician and spoke with her with him present related to his gaming and isolation and hygiene and She felt he should see a psychiatrist but because of his age he refused. I got him to sign up for his 2nd year apprenticeship course in plumbing and he attended his first class yesterday. He says he doesn’t want to go out with his friends because they drink and twice he was sent to the hospital via ambulance because of passing out. I told him I was glad he doesn’t want to drink but maybe to encourage his friends to go to dinner or a movie. He said no thanks. I don’t care about his sexual orientation as long as he’s happy. I just don’t agree with the S&M. I went to see a counsellor yesterday and spoke about everything and I go back next week. I told you earlier I have four boys. Two are twins and 18 and have stage 3 kidney failure and hearing impairment . One is getting a cochlear implant on December 23rd. The same boy has CP on his left side. They both are going to school for electrical engineering. My other boy is a physician and is 30 but has moved back home as he was shot two years ago and has been suffering from PTSD. So as you can see I have a lot on my plate but the 20 year old I worry about the most.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Idon’t-know, post: 752533, member: 24599"] Thank you so much everyone for taking time to respond. I didn’t mention but my son has just turned 20. I have taken his vape away and I gave him an ultimatum that he had to clean his room with a deadline or I would be going in. He told me he vacuumed but it was clearly not true so I went in and cleaned and dusted. I had warned him if it wasn’t done I would be doing it and I followed through. I have had him at a doctor several times when he was younger because of his dyslexia and sensory processing concerns. He went to a special school where he learned to use Dragon software and got lots of one on one. He has also suffered from a sensory issue related to clothing etc. Which he seemed to work through. He use to be fairly social but now refuses to see his friends. They ask about him often. I recently took him back to the physician and spoke with her with him present related to his gaming and isolation and hygiene and She felt he should see a psychiatrist but because of his age he refused. I got him to sign up for his 2nd year apprenticeship course in plumbing and he attended his first class yesterday. He says he doesn’t want to go out with his friends because they drink and twice he was sent to the hospital via ambulance because of passing out. I told him I was glad he doesn’t want to drink but maybe to encourage his friends to go to dinner or a movie. He said no thanks. I don’t care about his sexual orientation as long as he’s happy. I just don’t agree with the S&M. I went to see a counsellor yesterday and spoke about everything and I go back next week. I told you earlier I have four boys. Two are twins and 18 and have stage 3 kidney failure and hearing impairment . One is getting a cochlear implant on December 23rd. The same boy has CP on his left side. They both are going to school for electrical engineering. My other boy is a physician and is 30 but has moved back home as he was shot two years ago and has been suffering from PTSD. So as you can see I have a lot on my plate but the 20 year old I worry about the most. [/QUOTE]
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