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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 724719" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Cop mom......ugh.</p><p> His place of refuge from the consequences of his actions. 18 years old, the choice is to come home and tow the line..........or stay comfie with his girlfriend, smoke pot, and have sex.</p><p>Hmmmmmmm. </p><p>What would any male of 18 choose?</p><p>Not excusing his actions, but cop mom is certainly sabotaging the program.</p><p>What is wrong with her?</p><p></p><p>In my more experienced with all of this bs mind, this would be my option. Not judging anything you decide LBL, but it seems that cop mom is not dealing with a full deck, and son is testing the boundaries more and more. In his young mind, how can he see the light, with a COP providing an escape for him? Ugh, I can't imagine your frustration. </p><p>You have been so extremely generous in offering an out from jail, while your son waits for a rehab bed. After he committed credit card theft, and tried recently to extort money from you? </p><p>Now, he disrespects the arrangement further, by refusing to follow your rules.</p><p>I am sorry for the pain of it.</p><p></p><p>I would be concerned over what his next choice would be. He is disrespecting you and your home. He is so very fortunate that you and hubs have given him this chance, but he doesn't seem to get it. Not yet. Cop mom is making this very comfortable for him. You become the "bad guys".</p><p>Balderdash.</p><p>Ugh.</p><p>I am sorry for what you are going through. </p><p>It is preposterous.</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 724719, member: 19522"] Cop mom......ugh. His place of refuge from the consequences of his actions. 18 years old, the choice is to come home and tow the line..........or stay comfie with his girlfriend, smoke pot, and have sex. Hmmmmmmm. What would any male of 18 choose? Not excusing his actions, but cop mom is certainly sabotaging the program. What is wrong with her? In my more experienced with all of this bs mind, this would be my option. Not judging anything you decide LBL, but it seems that cop mom is not dealing with a full deck, and son is testing the boundaries more and more. In his young mind, how can he see the light, with a COP providing an escape for him? Ugh, I can't imagine your frustration. You have been so extremely generous in offering an out from jail, while your son waits for a rehab bed. After he committed credit card theft, and tried recently to extort money from you? Now, he disrespects the arrangement further, by refusing to follow your rules. I am sorry for the pain of it. I would be concerned over what his next choice would be. He is disrespecting you and your home. He is so very fortunate that you and hubs have given him this chance, but he doesn't seem to get it. Not yet. Cop mom is making this very comfortable for him. You become the "bad guys". Balderdash. Ugh. I am sorry for what you are going through. It is preposterous. (((HUGS))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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