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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 724766" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Well folks it just keeps getting better. The little shot told me his intake coordinator for rehab had a personal appointment and had to reschedule his intake interview. Huge lie! He missed the appointment. He has now jeopardized his chances of being accepted into rehab. </p><p></p><p>I came home this evening f and confronted him with this. Of course I got the gaslighting and BS story’s of how and who’s fault this was. Well I am not buying it and I am certainly not going for that rabbit hole. </p><p></p><p>I told him it is his responsibility to make this happen if he does not do this and becomes a none admissible candidate tocreqhb hen he goes to jail. That’s that and not mine to deal with. </p><p></p><p>I then went to the movies with friends and had a nice evening. </p><p>If he does not get the ball rolling on rehab while we are away. I am rescinding his bail bond and asking him to leave or turn himself over to the police. That’s that. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>If it’s not solid now it never will be. Perhaps he needs the solid confines of jail to sort himself out. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I agree 100% SWOT. Not that is is easy by any means. I am worn thin and sick to my stomach about this outcome. As I said my sons bottom had a basement and he likes to dwell there. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes me to ....obviously RN. What the hell is wrong with my codependent brain. It’s time to let go and get out of his way. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Doesn’t get it at all it’s like the upside down marix. My reality is certainly not his. Unfortunately for him my version is supported by society and the law. His well his is supported by crazy ass cop mom and his 17 old girl friend. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I agree SWOT. We have 20 days of blisss and he has 10 days to get his <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> together or we are pulling Surety on his bail and washing our hands of this mess. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes and he is certainly not suffering much is he Copa. Well let’s turn up the heat shall we. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I am so sorry this had been the outcome for you, and I do hope your son finds his way back to sobriety. I am grateful for your post and it has given me courage and strength. Thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 724766, member: 21895"] Well folks it just keeps getting better. The little shot told me his intake coordinator for rehab had a personal appointment and had to reschedule his intake interview. Huge lie! He missed the appointment. He has now jeopardized his chances of being accepted into rehab. I came home this evening f and confronted him with this. Of course I got the gaslighting and BS story’s of how and who’s fault this was. Well I am not buying it and I am certainly not going for that rabbit hole. I told him it is his responsibility to make this happen if he does not do this and becomes a none admissible candidate tocreqhb hen he goes to jail. That’s that and not mine to deal with. I then went to the movies with friends and had a nice evening. If he does not get the ball rolling on rehab while we are away. I am rescinding his bail bond and asking him to leave or turn himself over to the police. That’s that. If it’s not solid now it never will be. Perhaps he needs the solid confines of jail to sort himself out. I agree 100% SWOT. Not that is is easy by any means. I am worn thin and sick to my stomach about this outcome. As I said my sons bottom had a basement and he likes to dwell there. Yes me to ....obviously RN. What the hell is wrong with my codependent brain. It’s time to let go and get out of his way. Doesn’t get it at all it’s like the upside down marix. My reality is certainly not his. Unfortunately for him my version is supported by society and the law. His well his is supported by crazy ass cop mom and his 17 old girl friend. I agree SWOT. We have 20 days of blisss and he has 10 days to get his :censored2: together or we are pulling Surety on his bail and washing our hands of this mess. Yes and he is certainly not suffering much is he Copa. Well let’s turn up the heat shall we. I am so sorry this had been the outcome for you, and I do hope your son finds his way back to sobriety. I am grateful for your post and it has given me courage and strength. Thank you. [/QUOTE]
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