Sorry I haven't commented before now. I am glad you got to see him and that overall he is doing well. I hope he chooses not to let Cop Mom and daughter pull him back into active addiction when he gets out. As for sitting down with Cop Mom, don't do it. It will NOT help anything, no matter what you say. If she does visit, and it causes problems, MAYBE a visit to someone higher up with info from the rehab about how she was a problem would be helpful. Or encourage the rehab to ask for a restraining order if she is too much more of a bother, or if she is aggressive with them.