BusynMember
Well-Known Member
Interesting for those inspecting where they stood in their FOO and how to get free of it. Really good article. Which role did you have? I was the outcast, but more and more I am feeling free because I have let go completely and want nothing more to do with FOO. Can't be an outcast of a group you don't identify with. This kind of "new identity", which is identifying with my current family, has been very helpful. My healing is really coming along since the day that triggered my need to explore the why of it....Insightful for anyone trying to find where they are in this world and maybe why we treat our other loved ones the way we do...I think outcasts love too much sometimes because we didn't have it and we want to give it. I have to ask myself if this is a bad thing. I mean, unless you get clingy and overly involved in your loved ones personal life; that isn't good for you or them. I know that.
But my heart speaks to my REAL family. I so appreciate all those people in my life who love me unconditionally...maybe appreciate it more than people who always had this. What about you?
http://efttherapycolorado.com/free-yourself-from-your-childhood-family-role
But my heart speaks to my REAL family. I so appreciate all those people in my life who love me unconditionally...maybe appreciate it more than people who always had this. What about you?
http://efttherapycolorado.com/free-yourself-from-your-childhood-family-role