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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 656705" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Cedar, I think I fear that my son will turn into my father who got worse and worse until he melted.</p><p></p><p>And, I have turned into what my Mother could sometimes be. Judgmental. Angry. Afraid. Rejecting.</p><p></p><p>*Part of my son's frustration with me, I think, is this: "Where is she and why is she acting so weird?"</p><p></p><p>Today has shown me that I can get myself back if I focus. All I have to do is turn the channel. I do not have to turn into my Mother. I can stay tuned...stay me.</p><p></p><p>And more. By staying in bed, by taking on an identity of someone ill, sad, negating my competencies and undermining my hope...I have dissolved...(in a manner different than did my father) but dissolved nonetheless...so that my son might be saved.</p><p></p><p>Don't all you mom's out there rush to try this technique. It didn't work.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 656705, member: 18958"] Cedar, I think I fear that my son will turn into my father who got worse and worse until he melted. And, I have turned into what my Mother could sometimes be. Judgmental. Angry. Afraid. Rejecting. *Part of my son's frustration with me, I think, is this: "Where is she and why is she acting so weird?" Today has shown me that I can get myself back if I focus. All I have to do is turn the channel. I do not have to turn into my Mother. I can stay tuned...stay me. And more. By staying in bed, by taking on an identity of someone ill, sad, negating my competencies and undermining my hope...I have dissolved...(in a manner different than did my father) but dissolved nonetheless...so that my son might be saved. Don't all you mom's out there rush to try this technique. It didn't work. [/QUOTE]
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