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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 720173" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>lbl. i am sorry. i have not read all the posts here but enough to agree with those who say 60 days more seems like waaaay too much. </p><p></p><p>i would count the last 30 plus days with him shining you on. playing you like a fiddle. do these translate to canadian?</p><p></p><p>to me, he sounds way enough competent and capable to know what he is doing and how to take care of himself. he is manipulating the situation artfully.</p><p></p><p>actually. i think the professionals are manipulating too. trying to put you between a rock and a hard place. another idiom that may not translate.</p><p></p><p>i know how hard it is to put them out. i kicked out my son when he was 23 (he subsequently came home for am extended period. he turns 29 in 2 weeks) i still blame myself as causing all this. but the mama bird comes to mind.</p><p></p><p>what are you supposed to do when they are shitting the nest while dominating it too? these are their choices.</p><p></p><p>your son is making me very mad. he made an agreement. </p><p></p><p>he does not get to call the shots in your house.</p><p></p><p>now. this thread is very helpful to me. my son is homeless. and the good news is, can you believe it? he is sleeping in a car loaned to him with a dead battery in front of a kentucky fried chicken which he volunteered to share with a young man who is deaf. </p><p></p><p>all of this good news is shared by his boyhood friend who i call to beg to ask my son to please call. he has not.</p><p></p><p>i get in the mail bills from psychiatric hospitals where my son has gone for respite. more good news.</p><p></p><p>i write this to tell you that they do survive.</p><p></p><p>i will tell you my view: you have no choice.</p><p></p><p>if you asked me--you haven't--but i can't help myself....i would tell him he is out on his birthday.</p><p></p><p>i am so sorry. he is being a real jerk. in my view he needs to be called on it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 720173, member: 18958"] lbl. i am sorry. i have not read all the posts here but enough to agree with those who say 60 days more seems like waaaay too much. i would count the last 30 plus days with him shining you on. playing you like a fiddle. do these translate to canadian? to me, he sounds way enough competent and capable to know what he is doing and how to take care of himself. he is manipulating the situation artfully. actually. i think the professionals are manipulating too. trying to put you between a rock and a hard place. another idiom that may not translate. i know how hard it is to put them out. i kicked out my son when he was 23 (he subsequently came home for am extended period. he turns 29 in 2 weeks) i still blame myself as causing all this. but the mama bird comes to mind. what are you supposed to do when they are shitting the nest while dominating it too? these are their choices. your son is making me very mad. he made an agreement. he does not get to call the shots in your house. now. this thread is very helpful to me. my son is homeless. and the good news is, can you believe it? he is sleeping in a car loaned to him with a dead battery in front of a kentucky fried chicken which he volunteered to share with a young man who is deaf. all of this good news is shared by his boyhood friend who i call to beg to ask my son to please call. he has not. i get in the mail bills from psychiatric hospitals where my son has gone for respite. more good news. i write this to tell you that they do survive. i will tell you my view: you have no choice. if you asked me--you haven't--but i can't help myself....i would tell him he is out on his birthday. i am so sorry. he is being a real jerk. in my view he needs to be called on it. [/QUOTE]
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