Well she can only last two weeks at the most and then she self destructs. Reunited with druggie friend down the street. He is actually the reason she lost her car almost two years ago because he left an bottle of alcohol in the trunk. She claims he's clean and sober yet he was at the mall with other druggie neighbor who is a drug dealer. She spent the night there Tuesday night and tried to go back Wednesday. husband told her absolutely not and she threw a fit.
When husband picked her up from work last evening she had a contract written out that said she agrees to pay us $100 a month rent and therefore she cannot be kicked out and her curfew is no longer applicable and she will she who she wants and we must accept that she is almost 20 years old. husband told her we would not sign any contract and she was free to leave our home any time she wanted to and live on her own and be free to do what she pleased but while she was here she had to abide by our rules.
So she left last night at midnight and husband told her if she left she couldn't come back. At 9 am this morning the doorbell rang and she wanted to come in. We had an argument, she wrestled me for my car keys, we called the police and she left, after breaking her door and throwing some chairs around.
I think I can make it this time. I sense myself getting more detached, I hope that's true. The weather is breaking and I don't have to worry about her freezing out there. We need this to be over. She needs to hit bottom which she hasn't done yet and they find her way out herself. I doubt that will happen and I feel it will end in tragedy.
I sensed her life spiralling out of control lately and I'm usually right.
Nancy
When husband picked her up from work last evening she had a contract written out that said she agrees to pay us $100 a month rent and therefore she cannot be kicked out and her curfew is no longer applicable and she will she who she wants and we must accept that she is almost 20 years old. husband told her we would not sign any contract and she was free to leave our home any time she wanted to and live on her own and be free to do what she pleased but while she was here she had to abide by our rules.
So she left last night at midnight and husband told her if she left she couldn't come back. At 9 am this morning the doorbell rang and she wanted to come in. We had an argument, she wrestled me for my car keys, we called the police and she left, after breaking her door and throwing some chairs around.
I think I can make it this time. I sense myself getting more detached, I hope that's true. The weather is breaking and I don't have to worry about her freezing out there. We need this to be over. She needs to hit bottom which she hasn't done yet and they find her way out herself. I doubt that will happen and I feel it will end in tragedy.
I sensed her life spiralling out of control lately and I'm usually right.
Nancy