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How can I ever truly be happy? I am 63 and she is 36 still acting 13.
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 746862" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I'm so sorry for what you are dealing with. Do you have legal custody of the kids or did you just step in to raise them?</p><p>There are legal issues that can arise if you don't have legal custody.</p><p>What kind of relationship does she have with the kids? What do the kids think of her?</p><p>Would you really trust her to watch the kids for a week?</p><p></p><p>One thing I can tell you is that nothing will change until you change it. We have a saying here about people being stuck in the FOG (Fear, Obligation, Guilt) When we are stuck in the FOG we are just that stuck. The good news is you can choose to step out of the FOG.</p><p></p><p>There is a really good article about detaching. Give it a read.</p><p><a href="https://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/" target="_blank">https://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/</a></p><p></p><p>I'm glad you found us here and hope you will share more.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 746862, member: 18516"] I'm so sorry for what you are dealing with. Do you have legal custody of the kids or did you just step in to raise them? There are legal issues that can arise if you don't have legal custody. What kind of relationship does she have with the kids? What do the kids think of her? Would you really trust her to watch the kids for a week? One thing I can tell you is that nothing will change until you change it. We have a saying here about people being stuck in the FOG (Fear, Obligation, Guilt) When we are stuck in the FOG we are just that stuck. The good news is you can choose to step out of the FOG. There is a really good article about detaching. Give it a read. [URL]https://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/[/URL] I'm glad you found us here and hope you will share more. ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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