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How can I ever truly be happy? I am 63 and she is 36 still acting 13.
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<blockquote data-quote="Lonelylady" data-source="post: 746877" data-attributes="member: 22664"><p>Thank you for responding. I have had the boys since birth and it is through the court system. She lost them as newborns due to drugs. She is on legal drugs now but drugs are drugs if they hinder you and she is hindered. The youngest is 12 and he is on the autistic spectrum. Last week the school had him re tested and he is functioning at a 2nd grade level. Also he can't really show emotions. He is constant work. Don't misunderstand me I love him so much, but as I am getting older it is harder to keep up with him. He wanders off and just doesn't understand so many things. He gets bullied at school and I am constantly trying to help with all that. If I ask her she comments, he is just to hard to watch. I just have so much anger sometimes I promise myself I will never speak to her again. But then she will sneak and get hold of one of the boys even when I tell her to leave them alone. This is just a mess. I feel like no matter what I do or say nothing will ever change with her. I have actually went so far as to talk to my husband about moving out of state so she can't come find me. But all the doctors etc are here. I just really need some help. We planned to take a week together for our anniversary and just get some rest. But it looks like he will be going with us. The older son is 16 and he is in school and sports. He is a good kid but he deserves more than what people in their sixties can really do. We are slowing down even though we try hard to keep going. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lonelylady, post: 746877, member: 22664"] Thank you for responding. I have had the boys since birth and it is through the court system. She lost them as newborns due to drugs. She is on legal drugs now but drugs are drugs if they hinder you and she is hindered. The youngest is 12 and he is on the autistic spectrum. Last week the school had him re tested and he is functioning at a 2nd grade level. Also he can't really show emotions. He is constant work. Don't misunderstand me I love him so much, but as I am getting older it is harder to keep up with him. He wanders off and just doesn't understand so many things. He gets bullied at school and I am constantly trying to help with all that. If I ask her she comments, he is just to hard to watch. I just have so much anger sometimes I promise myself I will never speak to her again. But then she will sneak and get hold of one of the boys even when I tell her to leave them alone. This is just a mess. I feel like no matter what I do or say nothing will ever change with her. I have actually went so far as to talk to my husband about moving out of state so she can't come find me. But all the doctors etc are here. I just really need some help. We planned to take a week together for our anniversary and just get some rest. But it looks like he will be going with us. The older son is 16 and he is in school and sports. He is a good kid but he deserves more than what people in their sixties can really do. We are slowing down even though we try hard to keep going. Any advise would be greatly appreciated. [/QUOTE]
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