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How long did it take you to finally make a change
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<blockquote data-quote="wisernow" data-source="post: 734307" data-attributes="member: 20373"><p>I agree with the others. Often times there is an event that finally triggers that enough is enough. Everyone's time is different. However may I suggest a couple of things? Please get yourself to a therapist for self care, boundary setting, and rediscovering what is healthy and what is not. Too often we continue in these scenarios believing that the new normal is okay only to discover that the normal we thought was normal is completely dysfunctional. This is what is making you so tired and is eating away at you. Somewhere inside of you , you know that this arrangement is destructive for all of you. I believe that you need to focus on yourself first and get stronger and begin the process of detachment. The status quo is no longer an option because then you are correct, nothing will change. Hugs. This is so very very hard!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wisernow, post: 734307, member: 20373"] I agree with the others. Often times there is an event that finally triggers that enough is enough. Everyone's time is different. However may I suggest a couple of things? Please get yourself to a therapist for self care, boundary setting, and rediscovering what is healthy and what is not. Too often we continue in these scenarios believing that the new normal is okay only to discover that the normal we thought was normal is completely dysfunctional. This is what is making you so tired and is eating away at you. Somewhere inside of you , you know that this arrangement is destructive for all of you. I believe that you need to focus on yourself first and get stronger and begin the process of detachment. The status quo is no longer an option because then you are correct, nothing will change. Hugs. This is so very very hard! [/QUOTE]
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