Hi Helpless. Your post, to me, has more good news than bad. You have no control over his choices or preferences, as I have no control over my own son's. My son is homeless in these horrible California storms. I have no idea where he is. I have no idea whether or not he is in peril. Every time we let him back there is some kind of blow-up or disaster, including the police.
I have not had contact with him for a month. Either he is blocking me or he no longer has his phone. This is his life, Helpless. It is a constant struggle to not let it be my life, too. We, you and I, are in the same boat. Me? I watch a lot of Netflix. Preferably mindless romances.
Love Copa