Triedntrue- sounds like our sons are very similar, only mine is 26 years old. Just found out that he may get out of jail in a couple of days as they may drop the charges. He was all excited but found out that he may get extradited back to where he was before as they now have a warrant out for him for not showing up to a court date . He couldn't show up as he was in jail . The court that he didn't show up to was the one who sent him to the jail he is currently in. Boy the system is so messed up. If that jail did not put their warrant in the system he may get out, only to deal with that and his other problems later. He was so upset when I told him of the new warrant. He was very snotty on the phone telling me how to handle people. He has been locked up since April awaiting court dates, has not been found guilty of anything yet. I understand why he was so upset because he finally thought he was going to get out and then I told him of the warrant. I can't imagine what it is like to be locked up without being able to go outside except in a concrete block two times a week. I REALLY hate to see him locked up but in a way if he gets sent back to the other place to deal with that and gets it over with I think it would be a good idea. The only problem is that it takes forever between court dates- months. I just am so tried of dealing with his crisis's and depression. He brings on his circumstances. I do worry like you ,triedntrue, that his dad and him will get into it and we will have to have the cops come. It has been a few years since he was living here and I think the neighbors are just now starting to talk with us (except one).