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<blockquote data-quote="Crayola13" data-source="post: 745592" data-attributes="member: 21066"><p>Grandma might start feeling some effects from the pot if he smokes inside. Not trying to be funny. I wouldn't want the inside to wreak of pot or cigarettes, either. If he trashes the place again and doesn't respect the property, can you tolerate that? That alone might cause tension between him and grandma. If grandma has arthritis, bad back, etc., she shouldn't have to clean it up. She shouldn't have to clean it in the first place. She needs to be prepared for this before he moves in. She'll probably move out after a while. So, if your son refuses to clean, then who will? Even if you get a maid service to come once a month, the cost will be about $250. There are things the maid service won't do. As far as the daily chores, such as picking up dishes, taking out trash, etc., if he won't do that, you would have to do it because it's too expensive to have a maid come once a week. He would definitely have to smoke outside because the maid would probably get off on the smell of pot. I bet she'd be really full of energy and efficient, or she might doze off.</p><p></p><p>I cannot remember if you said pot is legal in your state, but if you own the property, you could get in trouble. In my city, the DA can actually seize your property if they keep finding drugs on site. There have been cases in which people don't get the house back, even though they were the owners. I'm not kidding. If the dealers know where your son lives, they might come after him, and not only his life, but grandma's life would be in danger. </p><p></p><p>As much stress and agony as you went through when you kicked him out you don't want to go through that again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Crayola13, post: 745592, member: 21066"] Grandma might start feeling some effects from the pot if he smokes inside. Not trying to be funny. I wouldn't want the inside to wreak of pot or cigarettes, either. If he trashes the place again and doesn't respect the property, can you tolerate that? That alone might cause tension between him and grandma. If grandma has arthritis, bad back, etc., she shouldn't have to clean it up. She shouldn't have to clean it in the first place. She needs to be prepared for this before he moves in. She'll probably move out after a while. So, if your son refuses to clean, then who will? Even if you get a maid service to come once a month, the cost will be about $250. There are things the maid service won't do. As far as the daily chores, such as picking up dishes, taking out trash, etc., if he won't do that, you would have to do it because it's too expensive to have a maid come once a week. He would definitely have to smoke outside because the maid would probably get off on the smell of pot. I bet she'd be really full of energy and efficient, or she might doze off. I cannot remember if you said pot is legal in your state, but if you own the property, you could get in trouble. In my city, the DA can actually seize your property if they keep finding drugs on site. There have been cases in which people don't get the house back, even though they were the owners. I'm not kidding. If the dealers know where your son lives, they might come after him, and not only his life, but grandma's life would be in danger. As much stress and agony as you went through when you kicked him out you don't want to go through that again. [/QUOTE]
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