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I am the mother of a beautiful 19 year old daughter. Her father was emotionally and verbally abusive
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 748529" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>You cant legally do anything. Learn to accept.</p><p></p><p>She is 19. You cant kidnap her or tresspass on the property or YOU can go to jail.</p><p></p><p>My daughter is 32. Mentally ill. Bipolar they said but no longer takes medications. Just POT! In abusive relationship. Until this year we tried everything and ended up this way:</p><p></p><p>Broke</p><p></p><p>Almost arrested for tresspassing</p><p></p><p>In debt to a few lawyers. We paid up but are even more broke.</p><p></p><p>Nervous wrecks with illnesses made worse by stress</p><p></p><p>Estranged (this is new but we saw it coming)</p><p></p><p>Go on with your life. As hard as it is you cant do anything for a child over 17 unless she agrees. It doesn't matter if she is mentally ill or not.</p><p></p><p>Dont waste years and money like we did. In the end every part of her life, good or dangerous, is her choice and you can get into legal trouble yourself if you violate the law trying to save her.</p><p></p><p>Wait for her to come to you. Mine did not. Maybe yours will. Our daughter even tried to get a TRO on us for calling too much She was livimg in a a house we bought her at the time. Yep. The TRO never happened but we were devestated.</p><p></p><p>Let God take over. You cant do anything.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 748529, member: 23706"] You cant legally do anything. Learn to accept. She is 19. You cant kidnap her or tresspass on the property or YOU can go to jail. My daughter is 32. Mentally ill. Bipolar they said but no longer takes medications. Just POT! In abusive relationship. Until this year we tried everything and ended up this way: Broke Almost arrested for tresspassing In debt to a few lawyers. We paid up but are even more broke. Nervous wrecks with illnesses made worse by stress Estranged (this is new but we saw it coming) Go on with your life. As hard as it is you cant do anything for a child over 17 unless she agrees. It doesn't matter if she is mentally ill or not. Dont waste years and money like we did. In the end every part of her life, good or dangerous, is her choice and you can get into legal trouble yourself if you violate the law trying to save her. Wait for her to come to you. Mine did not. Maybe yours will. Our daughter even tried to get a TRO on us for calling too much She was livimg in a a house we bought her at the time. Yep. The TRO never happened but we were devestated. Let God take over. You cant do anything. [/QUOTE]
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