LittleDudesMom
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Need a little guidance here. Suprising development with difficult child's middle school. I knew last week was hectic for everyone at difficult child's new middle school so I waited until this week to call and request a meeting with the director of Special Education (who happens to be the school's compliance officer and his case worker) to review difficult child's IEP and make sure the teachers knew stuff like textbooks at home, etc.
A little background. In elem school, difficult child had resource for math and la. When I met with the principal of the middle school last year, he said they didn't do resource they did collaborative and it worked really well.
This summer I met with his Special Education teacher, gen ed teacher, and the asst principal of his elem school to rewrite his IEP with middle school in mind. They suggested that we write collaborative for all subjects because of some of his writing issues (which don't appear to be significant so far, he is taking notes like crazy and his 1:1 helped a little in history yesterday).
When the Special Education teacher called me back yesterday, we began our conversation and she didn't even know difficult child had an IEP :surprise:! She also didn't know he had a 1:1 and said she had made a point to meet the other 1:1s but hadn't met difficult children :surprise:! As we began to go over his IEP on the phone, we got to the accoms/mod section and she went down the list basically saying everything was transferable to middle school. She then asked "Does he have his textbooks at home yet?" "No, if you didn't know he had an IEP, then his teachers wouldn't have a copy of it to follow through, correct?" "Yes, that's true. Send a note with him tomorrow for him to give to all his teachers that indicates per his IEP, please send home an additional text."
So that's my job huh?
Then we got to the services page and she said "Oh, oh no. It says here collaborative for English, Math, Science and History. He's not in collaborative, we are going to have to change this right now! We will have to get him in the collaborative classes!"
"Wait, wait, wait", I said. I don't want difficult child pulled out of his classes today and tomorrow and all switched around. He loves his teachers and appears to be adjusting well. The worse thing we can do is change everything around. I am a little upset here that noone at the school checked IEPs before school started and classes were assigned!"
"Well, if this is in his IEP, I have to legally follow this and move him now."
"Ok, ok, how can we get around this for a few days until you are able to speak with this teachers? There has to be a way we can buy some time?" So, she puts me on hold for awhile and comes back and says, "I can indicate that we had a meeting over the phone, resulting in calling an emergency IEP meeting for next week and that way we can leave him where he is for now."
"Ok, let's do that and go ahead and schedule the meeting. I'm avialable every day but Wednesday."
So, we have a meeting on Tuesday at one with her and one of his teachers (fortunately his Math teacher was available then which is where I have the most concern).
I spoke with difficult child yesterday afternoon. I kinda explained to him about the collaborative thing and the chance that he may keep the same teachers, just different periods. He said that there was already a second teacher in math and his english teacher was a man and he does really well with man teachers :crazy:!
So I will find out at the meeting next week if he happens to already be in a collaborative room for math - luck of the draw - or if that is a student teacher.
So, aren't the schools supposed to review their student body anticipating IEPs before scheduling their fall classes? Am I just used to the fab school he was in before and expecting too much?
Please give me some advice or regs I can pull on to show they are wrong and I am right :smile:.
My gut tells me to pull the colab off history, science and english and put the dictation to scribe back in his IEP for use in English. Thoughts? Advise?
Thanks,
Sharon
A little background. In elem school, difficult child had resource for math and la. When I met with the principal of the middle school last year, he said they didn't do resource they did collaborative and it worked really well.
This summer I met with his Special Education teacher, gen ed teacher, and the asst principal of his elem school to rewrite his IEP with middle school in mind. They suggested that we write collaborative for all subjects because of some of his writing issues (which don't appear to be significant so far, he is taking notes like crazy and his 1:1 helped a little in history yesterday).
When the Special Education teacher called me back yesterday, we began our conversation and she didn't even know difficult child had an IEP :surprise:! She also didn't know he had a 1:1 and said she had made a point to meet the other 1:1s but hadn't met difficult children :surprise:! As we began to go over his IEP on the phone, we got to the accoms/mod section and she went down the list basically saying everything was transferable to middle school. She then asked "Does he have his textbooks at home yet?" "No, if you didn't know he had an IEP, then his teachers wouldn't have a copy of it to follow through, correct?" "Yes, that's true. Send a note with him tomorrow for him to give to all his teachers that indicates per his IEP, please send home an additional text."
So that's my job huh?
Then we got to the services page and she said "Oh, oh no. It says here collaborative for English, Math, Science and History. He's not in collaborative, we are going to have to change this right now! We will have to get him in the collaborative classes!"
"Wait, wait, wait", I said. I don't want difficult child pulled out of his classes today and tomorrow and all switched around. He loves his teachers and appears to be adjusting well. The worse thing we can do is change everything around. I am a little upset here that noone at the school checked IEPs before school started and classes were assigned!"
"Well, if this is in his IEP, I have to legally follow this and move him now."
"Ok, ok, how can we get around this for a few days until you are able to speak with this teachers? There has to be a way we can buy some time?" So, she puts me on hold for awhile and comes back and says, "I can indicate that we had a meeting over the phone, resulting in calling an emergency IEP meeting for next week and that way we can leave him where he is for now."
"Ok, let's do that and go ahead and schedule the meeting. I'm avialable every day but Wednesday."
So, we have a meeting on Tuesday at one with her and one of his teachers (fortunately his Math teacher was available then which is where I have the most concern).
I spoke with difficult child yesterday afternoon. I kinda explained to him about the collaborative thing and the chance that he may keep the same teachers, just different periods. He said that there was already a second teacher in math and his english teacher was a man and he does really well with man teachers :crazy:!
So I will find out at the meeting next week if he happens to already be in a collaborative room for math - luck of the draw - or if that is a student teacher.
So, aren't the schools supposed to review their student body anticipating IEPs before scheduling their fall classes? Am I just used to the fab school he was in before and expecting too much?
Please give me some advice or regs I can pull on to show they are wrong and I am right :smile:.
My gut tells me to pull the colab off history, science and english and put the dictation to scribe back in his IEP for use in English. Thoughts? Advise?
Thanks,
Sharon