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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 745112" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Misssy, you are precious and loving and feel you have to take care of everyone in your family. And you did!</p><p></p><p> But none of us are able to keep that up. You have been diagnosed with dementia ....you absolutly must take care of yourself now. Your son will not have you to care for him forever. The more stressed you are, the sooner he will have to learn to take care of himself. Period.</p><p></p><p></p><p>He is not living in HIS house. You are extending him the invitation of living in YOUR house. He is well old enough to care about YOU and get along with your boyfriend for your sake. </p><p></p><p>If he wont I think you need to put yourself first. He can leave so that you can feel happy and cared for by the man you love.</p><p></p><p>There is an age when our kids are little and need a mommy. There is an age when they, like you did, need to take care of yourself and 29 is well past thay age. His anger problems should not impact your life anymore. You should be able to have a relationship without a man his age being a factor.</p><p></p><p>He is being a selfish grown adult who is thinking of only himself.</p><p></p><p>You deserve a great rest of your life but it is up to you if you allow it. I hope you do. in my opinion its time to enjoy the rest of your life, not care for a grown man. What happens to him when you are no lo ger here?</p><p></p><p>Hugs, love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 745112, member: 1550"] Misssy, you are precious and loving and feel you have to take care of everyone in your family. And you did! But none of us are able to keep that up. You have been diagnosed with dementia ....you absolutly must take care of yourself now. Your son will not have you to care for him forever. The more stressed you are, the sooner he will have to learn to take care of himself. Period. He is not living in HIS house. You are extending him the invitation of living in YOUR house. He is well old enough to care about YOU and get along with your boyfriend for your sake. If he wont I think you need to put yourself first. He can leave so that you can feel happy and cared for by the man you love. There is an age when our kids are little and need a mommy. There is an age when they, like you did, need to take care of yourself and 29 is well past thay age. His anger problems should not impact your life anymore. You should be able to have a relationship without a man his age being a factor. He is being a selfish grown adult who is thinking of only himself. You deserve a great rest of your life but it is up to you if you allow it. I hope you do. in my opinion its time to enjoy the rest of your life, not care for a grown man. What happens to him when you are no lo ger here? Hugs, love and light! [/QUOTE]
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