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I found myself here because I made my daughter leave today and am now remorseful
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<blockquote data-quote="Fifi_1123" data-source="post: 760741" data-attributes="member: 27897"><p>Truly I think the lack of contraceptives is how this as brought to a head. She went off them as she continuously takes them irregularly. </p><p>I am knowledgeable about products for BC and am not a fan of iud in nulliparous females. Nor am I a fan of depo for if she ever decides she wants children the links to infertility are real snd that’s not enough option also too close to causing obesity and PCOS and such.</p><p>I had her out on BC at 16 for the mood swings and irritability and such and it did work. This was a big turn around for her. So yes she is ready to go back on them. She reports she doesn’t like children at all and doesn’t want anything to do with kids and is not prepared for them. She’s thankfully not that irresponsibly minded.</p><p>There are products here that I know she has used. We have been open regarding things of that nature in the past. There’s a mimicry product of thc here called delta 8. It gives them a mild feeling of being high. </p><p>I actually wouldn’t mind her in something that toned her down and helped her anxiety. SSRI/SSNI have been if no use. Doesn’t work well for her. We’ve used 5HTP and tryptophan as suggested by her psychiatric NP. </p><p>She is not resistant to care of that sort but I do see all the signs of the path to drug use. </p><p>Mira in my family’s gene history snd also her fathers as far as alcohol goes so she dies have higher chance of becoming addicted if she uses. And yes I have definitely made her aware and understand the concept of dependence physiologically.</p><p>I am no longer holding out for these kernels of hope. I’m just seeing this for what it is and am moving on. I’m making sure that three is no liability on my part legally for her actions and am setting up her final disembarkment from the home place. </p><p>We are sitting down today to discuss options. I know I will feel better knowing she will have a safe clean environment to live in if I am not here and am taking steps to make full written agreements if she is amenable to my terms. I will use the phrase how can we meet halfway here??</p><p>I am planning on getting a full answer in what she expects to receive if I allow her back here for this one ably one semester of school.</p><p>The cat back in the house is only option if it’s in basement with kitty door. It can be outside in day and in at night. And only in basement not in her room. It will either be that or not here at all.</p><p>I won’t be gullible with her current remorseful attitude. I mean it’s only been 7 days away now. She hasn’t seen what it’s like to be cold snd hungry and without anything extra, and it shows. </p><p>move done a good job and have placed my personal life on hold until she has turned 18 and I am certain this is part of her behavior also. She sees me moving on with others. But she can adjust and accept with respect my choice of friends and significant others or not. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for some ideas and input. </p><p>I do not feel 100 percent comfortable with her here in my home alone. I have plans in the works for persons I trust to be in my home regularly and maybe it just spot check several times a week </p><p>my mother is close and I have family close by. They will keep an eye out for things here. I’ve already gotten all the valuables put away ( I had an alcoholic drug addict brother that stole from us regularly) </p><p>All firearms are out of the home safe. And all keys to car and access to garage and home codes have been changed. House alarm has been reset. </p><p></p><p>My latest decision is to either sell this home and my extra vehicles and have no debt whatsoever at all while the market is good and lease a place closer to the college. The college has transit buses to and from campus. There are worse ways she would have to live.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fifi_1123, post: 760741, member: 27897"] Truly I think the lack of contraceptives is how this as brought to a head. She went off them as she continuously takes them irregularly. I am knowledgeable about products for BC and am not a fan of iud in nulliparous females. Nor am I a fan of depo for if she ever decides she wants children the links to infertility are real snd that’s not enough option also too close to causing obesity and PCOS and such. I had her out on BC at 16 for the mood swings and irritability and such and it did work. This was a big turn around for her. So yes she is ready to go back on them. She reports she doesn’t like children at all and doesn’t want anything to do with kids and is not prepared for them. She’s thankfully not that irresponsibly minded. There are products here that I know she has used. We have been open regarding things of that nature in the past. There’s a mimicry product of thc here called delta 8. It gives them a mild feeling of being high. I actually wouldn’t mind her in something that toned her down and helped her anxiety. SSRI/SSNI have been if no use. Doesn’t work well for her. We’ve used 5HTP and tryptophan as suggested by her psychiatric NP. She is not resistant to care of that sort but I do see all the signs of the path to drug use. Mira in my family’s gene history snd also her fathers as far as alcohol goes so she dies have higher chance of becoming addicted if she uses. And yes I have definitely made her aware and understand the concept of dependence physiologically. I am no longer holding out for these kernels of hope. I’m just seeing this for what it is and am moving on. I’m making sure that three is no liability on my part legally for her actions and am setting up her final disembarkment from the home place. We are sitting down today to discuss options. I know I will feel better knowing she will have a safe clean environment to live in if I am not here and am taking steps to make full written agreements if she is amenable to my terms. I will use the phrase how can we meet halfway here?? I am planning on getting a full answer in what she expects to receive if I allow her back here for this one ably one semester of school. The cat back in the house is only option if it’s in basement with kitty door. It can be outside in day and in at night. And only in basement not in her room. It will either be that or not here at all. I won’t be gullible with her current remorseful attitude. I mean it’s only been 7 days away now. She hasn’t seen what it’s like to be cold snd hungry and without anything extra, and it shows. move done a good job and have placed my personal life on hold until she has turned 18 and I am certain this is part of her behavior also. She sees me moving on with others. But she can adjust and accept with respect my choice of friends and significant others or not. Thanks for some ideas and input. I do not feel 100 percent comfortable with her here in my home alone. I have plans in the works for persons I trust to be in my home regularly and maybe it just spot check several times a week my mother is close and I have family close by. They will keep an eye out for things here. I’ve already gotten all the valuables put away ( I had an alcoholic drug addict brother that stole from us regularly) All firearms are out of the home safe. And all keys to car and access to garage and home codes have been changed. House alarm has been reset. My latest decision is to either sell this home and my extra vehicles and have no debt whatsoever at all while the market is good and lease a place closer to the college. The college has transit buses to and from campus. There are worse ways she would have to live. [/QUOTE]
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