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I found myself here because I made my daughter leave today and am now remorseful
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 761730" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Me too. I think this is why these setbacks affect us so.</p><p></p><p>How do you know what her story will be? These are your fears and doubts. Please let her be responsible for her story. I think you have everything right, except for that piece. But I understand the pain and fear of it. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Where does this fear come from? What feeds your sense that she is so fragile? Does she have a history of self-harm? Did somebody else in your family commit suicide or somebody that you loved?</p><p></p><p>This failure is just one second out of a whole life. I NEVER think about how I flunked out of school unless some other person's story reminds me. First it is a million years back. But more importantly, I learned so very much from this experience. I learned to be motivated for one, and learned to fight for what I wanted. Nobody close to me in my life would have guessed I would have such success as I have had. </p><p></p><p>I believe that failing helped me achieve. More than this I came to see that there are always comeback stories, second chances and third ones. In fact there are chances until we die. I believe the most fulfilling things come very late in life, when we learn what is really worth having, what has real value in this life. For example, the women here on this forum have so much wisdom, fight and love. They learned this from suffering.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 761730, member: 18958"] Me too. I think this is why these setbacks affect us so. How do you know what her story will be? These are your fears and doubts. Please let her be responsible for her story. I think you have everything right, except for that piece. But I understand the pain and fear of it. Where does this fear come from? What feeds your sense that she is so fragile? Does she have a history of self-harm? Did somebody else in your family commit suicide or somebody that you loved? This failure is just one second out of a whole life. I NEVER think about how I flunked out of school unless some other person's story reminds me. First it is a million years back. But more importantly, I learned so very much from this experience. I learned to be motivated for one, and learned to fight for what I wanted. Nobody close to me in my life would have guessed I would have such success as I have had. I believe that failing helped me achieve. More than this I came to see that there are always comeback stories, second chances and third ones. In fact there are chances until we die. I believe the most fulfilling things come very late in life, when we learn what is really worth having, what has real value in this life. For example, the women here on this forum have so much wisdom, fight and love. They learned this from suffering. [/QUOTE]
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