Think a while before offering. I come from a place where we enabled hugely and every time we drew up a contract with Kay she broke it. Then she went off on us when we tried to enforce it and often I felt too guilty to make her homeless. Well, we learned. She.is homeless now rather than willing to follow any sane rules.
I think Kay likes the freedom of living in an old motorhome rather than getting help or working. She'd gladly accept our hospitality and money but only if no strings were attached. I never believed anyone would be homeless by choice until Kay and her husband did it.
Fortunately they are.in Arizona now. I don't think they will like it much in the summer though. I hope they don't drive back here.
Prayers and.love.
