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<blockquote data-quote="Deni D" data-source="post: 736445" data-attributes="member: 22840"><p>I’m sorry he did this to you tired momma. I wouldn’t consider it much of a slip up. It seems like he took the little bit you offered to do for him and used it to “get back” at you because you are not rescuing him as he probably thinks he’s entitled to. With a grandchild in the mix it must make it so much more difficult to deal with his attitude and manipulations.</p><p></p><p>I sent my son an email after his birthday dinner rudeness. I told him I didn’t want to speak with him for a while, left it open a to what that while will be. And I told him he could text me if he wanted to. Told him if he likes his life the way it is then good, but if he would like it to be different then he should start by going back on medication, and not drinking or drugging for a least a month to see what he thinks. Told him it’s his roller coaster, not mine.</p><p></p><p>I hope you quickly get back to a place of peace and don’t let this last bit upset you for long. It doesn’t do us any good other than to remind us to keep to our boundaries. And once we get that reminder that’s about all we need to take away from it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Deni D, post: 736445, member: 22840"] I’m sorry he did this to you tired momma. I wouldn’t consider it much of a slip up. It seems like he took the little bit you offered to do for him and used it to “get back” at you because you are not rescuing him as he probably thinks he’s entitled to. With a grandchild in the mix it must make it so much more difficult to deal with his attitude and manipulations. I sent my son an email after his birthday dinner rudeness. I told him I didn’t want to speak with him for a while, left it open a to what that while will be. And I told him he could text me if he wanted to. Told him if he likes his life the way it is then good, but if he would like it to be different then he should start by going back on medication, and not drinking or drugging for a least a month to see what he thinks. Told him it’s his roller coaster, not mine. I hope you quickly get back to a place of peace and don’t let this last bit upset you for long. It doesn’t do us any good other than to remind us to keep to our boundaries. And once we get that reminder that’s about all we need to take away from it. [/QUOTE]
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