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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 758299" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Newstart. I think you are very hard on yourself. I agree with Jmom. You help her because you love her and you are her mother. You also help her because you are a good person who CHOOSES to be good. Of course you are a sensitive soul. This is not a bad thing. The thing to do is to find boundaries that keep you safe. These are not necessarily physical boundaries. They may be emotional boundaries. Remembering who she is. Remembering that this time she won't be different. But you can be. If you remember all of the time what has been hurtful to you, and assume that she will still do these things and act this way, you can take responsibility for going in with eyes wide open. We can work with you here, so that you will be prepared. It would be fun. To go through your posts and to see what it is that consistently happens. And then we can all of us try to come up with ways to anticipate it, and for you to protect yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 758299, member: 18958"] Newstart. I think you are very hard on yourself. I agree with Jmom. You help her because you love her and you are her mother. You also help her because you are a good person who CHOOSES to be good. Of course you are a sensitive soul. This is not a bad thing. The thing to do is to find boundaries that keep you safe. These are not necessarily physical boundaries. They may be emotional boundaries. Remembering who she is. Remembering that this time she won't be different. But you can be. If you remember all of the time what has been hurtful to you, and assume that she will still do these things and act this way, you can take responsibility for going in with eyes wide open. We can work with you here, so that you will be prepared. It would be fun. To go through your posts and to see what it is that consistently happens. And then we can all of us try to come up with ways to anticipate it, and for you to protect yourself. [/QUOTE]
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