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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 723053" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>My Dear Copa </p><p>So aptly said by you and SWOT. This is no gracious home coming. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Indeed and he knows that is not going to happen. He has agreed to all the demands put forward and also to long term rehab should he not succeed. The only one who thinks he is capable of succeeding is him. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>When will they suffer enough? My son has been in a peanut gallery outpatient program which does not even drug test him. We drug test him and I have all the results in my cell phone camera. He needs a long term in patient program. He refused to go. He is bargaining and that is part of the process. He says if he is 100% clean and productive when the bed becomes available he won’t have to go. Sure I’ll entertain that idea. It won’t happen. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I do not believe he is able to stop on his own.i no longer think he feels the life style of drugs and social asssiatace is an apealing long term plan. Could he have duped us and manipulated us again? Certainly he could have. Time will tell. </p><p></p><p>Husband has said if he fails to succeed on his own and does not go to rehab. He will not be able to see us at our home not even for a coffee. He will be in his own to do as he chooses but we will not support his addiction. I support this position. </p><p></p><p>. </p><p></p><p>If he goes to long term rehab they will arrange sober living after his rehab. He will be 19 going in 20 by then. One day at a time. </p><p></p><p>My biggest fear was to not support his request and derail him in his bargaining phase and miss the opportunity to get him into Kim term rehab. </p><p></p><p>I either had an. Epiphany or it is wishful thinking that he entered long term rehab and did very well. Time will tell. </p><p></p><p>Manipulation, Gas Lighting, Duped again maybe. But we get sucked in. We get sucked in with hope. </p><p></p><p>It am protecting my heart and my valuables. No expectations. </p><p></p><p>You must tell us more if your tales of your travels in South America. A conversation for the Watercooler perhaps. </p><p></p><p>I found the history of the Jewish and German immigration to Argentina to be very interesting. I never knew of this historical connection until I went to visit there several years ago.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 723053, member: 21895"] My Dear Copa So aptly said by you and SWOT. This is no gracious home coming. Indeed and he knows that is not going to happen. He has agreed to all the demands put forward and also to long term rehab should he not succeed. The only one who thinks he is capable of succeeding is him. When will they suffer enough? My son has been in a peanut gallery outpatient program which does not even drug test him. We drug test him and I have all the results in my cell phone camera. He needs a long term in patient program. He refused to go. He is bargaining and that is part of the process. He says if he is 100% clean and productive when the bed becomes available he won’t have to go. Sure I’ll entertain that idea. It won’t happen. I do not believe he is able to stop on his own.i no longer think he feels the life style of drugs and social asssiatace is an apealing long term plan. Could he have duped us and manipulated us again? Certainly he could have. Time will tell. Husband has said if he fails to succeed on his own and does not go to rehab. He will not be able to see us at our home not even for a coffee. He will be in his own to do as he chooses but we will not support his addiction. I support this position. . If he goes to long term rehab they will arrange sober living after his rehab. He will be 19 going in 20 by then. One day at a time. My biggest fear was to not support his request and derail him in his bargaining phase and miss the opportunity to get him into Kim term rehab. I either had an. Epiphany or it is wishful thinking that he entered long term rehab and did very well. Time will tell. Manipulation, Gas Lighting, Duped again maybe. But we get sucked in. We get sucked in with hope. It am protecting my heart and my valuables. No expectations. You must tell us more if your tales of your travels in South America. A conversation for the Watercooler perhaps. I found the history of the Jewish and German immigration to Argentina to be very interesting. I never knew of this historical connection until I went to visit there several years ago. [/QUOTE]
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