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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 723077" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>i believe we are still locating the responsibility and the changing in ourselves. like we hold the key. that it hinges on something we do or not. </p><p></p><p>i have trained my son to think. act and tell others that i am the problem. and m.</p><p></p><p>he told me the friend called ne a bixch. my son called me last night a witch. </p><p></p><p>and? i beg him to stay. he calls the shots. this morning i woke at 6 to a text saying more or less that i will suffer (and deserve to) more than i could ever imagine. and that he was leaving. because we were abusive. that i behave like a monster. that his friend (who has not seen me in a decade and around whom i have behaved like queen elizabeth) says so too.</p><p></p><p>and what did i do? go and beg him to not leave.</p><p></p><p>that said: you will do what is in your heart...but leave yourself an out...to give yourself more chances. that's what i think. </p><p></p><p>there are parents here who close and lock the door. i could do that for a long time. i can't now. it did not help my son.</p><p></p><p>recognize that you are at the same time seizing an opportunity and rewarding his manipulation. that is why we are going nuts. </p><p></p><p>they believe the answers and solutions are in us. and we do too.</p><p></p><p>oh. i hate my life this minute.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 723077, member: 18958"] i believe we are still locating the responsibility and the changing in ourselves. like we hold the key. that it hinges on something we do or not. i have trained my son to think. act and tell others that i am the problem. and m. he told me the friend called ne a bixch. my son called me last night a witch. and? i beg him to stay. he calls the shots. this morning i woke at 6 to a text saying more or less that i will suffer (and deserve to) more than i could ever imagine. and that he was leaving. because we were abusive. that i behave like a monster. that his friend (who has not seen me in a decade and around whom i have behaved like queen elizabeth) says so too. and what did i do? go and beg him to not leave. that said: you will do what is in your heart...but leave yourself an out...to give yourself more chances. that's what i think. there are parents here who close and lock the door. i could do that for a long time. i can't now. it did not help my son. recognize that you are at the same time seizing an opportunity and rewarding his manipulation. that is why we are going nuts. they believe the answers and solutions are in us. and we do too. oh. i hate my life this minute. [/QUOTE]
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