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<blockquote data-quote="Jabberwockey" data-source="post: 685050" data-attributes="member: 18238"><p>I understand but you aren't the one who comes home to him lounging on the couch with his dirty dishes in front of him or on the kitchen counter. Then he sits there watching tv while I do the chores and get dinner started. I'd be fine if he would just offer to help or even act just a little bit grateful for what we're doing.</p><p></p><p>The comment about the drugs and smoking was just that, a comment. It wasn't meant to be an accusation</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Part of the problem is that I worry about it all day. Once I'm home its not like I can just run around and check on this stuff. If he notices me doing it he WILL blow a gasket so it takes me half the night to do it unobtrusively. Yes, I know I should get over it but he did us dirty and its just not that easy for me to trust him again. Sorry.</p><p></p><p>I AM trying honey. My major problem is that he doesn't seem to be. Its the whole "We're putting more effort into it than him" thing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jabberwockey, post: 685050, member: 18238"] I understand but you aren't the one who comes home to him lounging on the couch with his dirty dishes in front of him or on the kitchen counter. Then he sits there watching tv while I do the chores and get dinner started. I'd be fine if he would just offer to help or even act just a little bit grateful for what we're doing. The comment about the drugs and smoking was just that, a comment. It wasn't meant to be an accusation Part of the problem is that I worry about it all day. Once I'm home its not like I can just run around and check on this stuff. If he notices me doing it he WILL blow a gasket so it takes me half the night to do it unobtrusively. Yes, I know I should get over it but he did us dirty and its just not that easy for me to trust him again. Sorry. I AM trying honey. My major problem is that he doesn't seem to be. Its the whole "We're putting more effort into it than him" thing. [/QUOTE]
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