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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 754245" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I wouldn't want their mail coming for two reasons.</p><p></p><p>1. If they decide to get nasty, they can claim that they live in your house and try to prove it by showing that the mail goes there. As soon as we moved Kay into the house that we stupidly bought her, we made sure she filled out a form at the post office sending her mail to her new address. Now I know you can't get your kids to do that but I would return the mail to sender for your own sake. You matter. Your kids can get P.O. boxes. They are not your responsibility anymore. That you are afraid of them shows a form of PTSD maybe. From your own kids! How dare they! Trust me, I think I had PTSD as well. The phone rang and I had a panic attack before I even knew who was calling.</p><p></p><p>2. Secondly, I would not want to know what my disordered kids were in trouble for now. That just causes us to worry. I don't want to know what Kay does. There is nothing I can do about it except worry. I ignore social media.</p><p></p><p>I am the kind of person who got sad more than angry or scared. That caused depression and I needed an antidepressant. I won't let Kay put me there again. She is an adult. And I can not mother her anymore. She never listens. Do any of them? Not that I have read here or heard about in Al Anon.</p><p></p><p>I have no doubt that you will get to Chapter 5. And 6, 7 and 8. You are thinking right. You are on the right thinking path. You are strong and smart. God is with you, if you believe.</p><p></p><p>I send you prayers and many hugs. You are not alone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 754245, member: 23706"] I wouldn't want their mail coming for two reasons. 1. If they decide to get nasty, they can claim that they live in your house and try to prove it by showing that the mail goes there. As soon as we moved Kay into the house that we stupidly bought her, we made sure she filled out a form at the post office sending her mail to her new address. Now I know you can't get your kids to do that but I would return the mail to sender for your own sake. You matter. Your kids can get P.O. boxes. They are not your responsibility anymore. That you are afraid of them shows a form of PTSD maybe. From your own kids! How dare they! Trust me, I think I had PTSD as well. The phone rang and I had a panic attack before I even knew who was calling. 2. Secondly, I would not want to know what my disordered kids were in trouble for now. That just causes us to worry. I don't want to know what Kay does. There is nothing I can do about it except worry. I ignore social media. I am the kind of person who got sad more than angry or scared. That caused depression and I needed an antidepressant. I won't let Kay put me there again. She is an adult. And I can not mother her anymore. She never listens. Do any of them? Not that I have read here or heard about in Al Anon. I have no doubt that you will get to Chapter 5. And 6, 7 and 8. You are thinking right. You are on the right thinking path. You are strong and smart. God is with you, if you believe. I send you prayers and many hugs. You are not alone. [/QUOTE]
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