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<blockquote data-quote="Blindsided" data-source="post: 754255" data-attributes="member: 23811"><p>Acacia, you are not alone. I think I am doing better at emotional detachment, and I am, but I still have days or periods that I am not. I get a better hold on reality when I can identify the facts. </p><p></p><p>Did you give the courts, etc. Your address?</p><p></p><p>Is it reasonable that you should be responsible for making sure your boys/adult men get their mail?</p><p></p><p>Is it your responsibility to notify the courts of their address change?</p><p></p><p>The boundaries have to be yours, what you choose. I hope you can get beyond the guilt. Emotional decisions are not good decisions. </p><p></p><p>I say prayers or meditate on letting go of the guilt and fear. I know in the end, I have to let go of things I can't change or dod not cause.</p><p></p><p>Comforting thoughts as you work through this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blindsided, post: 754255, member: 23811"] Acacia, you are not alone. I think I am doing better at emotional detachment, and I am, but I still have days or periods that I am not. I get a better hold on reality when I can identify the facts. Did you give the courts, etc. Your address? Is it reasonable that you should be responsible for making sure your boys/adult men get their mail? Is it your responsibility to notify the courts of their address change? The boundaries have to be yours, what you choose. I hope you can get beyond the guilt. Emotional decisions are not good decisions. I say prayers or meditate on letting go of the guilt and fear. I know in the end, I have to let go of things I can't change or dod not cause. Comforting thoughts as you work through this. [/QUOTE]
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