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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 754258" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I have read that the opposite of love is not hate but fear because even hate is caused by fear. This is how it was explained.</p><p></p><p>Love and fear can not co exist. Try to feel love and fear at the same time. </p><p></p><p>You can't.</p><p></p><p>Some emotions are consistent. If you are feeling great love you may also be feeling joy, happiness, warmth and kindness. But you can't simultaneously feel fear at the same exact time that love surges through your body. They are opposites.</p><p></p><p>With fear you can also simultaneously feel gloom, anger (fear and anger commonly co exist), depression, and hopelessness. But you can't feel true pure love and fear together.</p><p></p><p>I remember this. It helps me with Kay. When I feel love for her I am not angry at the same time. I can switch gears to anger but then the feeling of love is eradicated.</p><p></p><p>To me this resonates and it means that a decision made from fear is not acting out of love. So to me I don't think anything is a loving gesture if done out of fear. </p><p></p><p>I don't know if this resonates with others. I shared it on the chance that it may help somebody else. On a personal level, nothing I ever did out of fear ever proved helpful to anybody else or myself. </p><p></p><p>Blessings to all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 754258, member: 23706"] I have read that the opposite of love is not hate but fear because even hate is caused by fear. This is how it was explained. Love and fear can not co exist. Try to feel love and fear at the same time. You can't. Some emotions are consistent. If you are feeling great love you may also be feeling joy, happiness, warmth and kindness. But you can't simultaneously feel fear at the same exact time that love surges through your body. They are opposites. With fear you can also simultaneously feel gloom, anger (fear and anger commonly co exist), depression, and hopelessness. But you can't feel true pure love and fear together. I remember this. It helps me with Kay. When I feel love for her I am not angry at the same time. I can switch gears to anger but then the feeling of love is eradicated. To me this resonates and it means that a decision made from fear is not acting out of love. So to me I don't think anything is a loving gesture if done out of fear. I don't know if this resonates with others. I shared it on the chance that it may help somebody else. On a personal level, nothing I ever did out of fear ever proved helpful to anybody else or myself. Blessings to all. [/QUOTE]
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