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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 751951" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I don't believe Kay knows what narcissist means. She heard it on Youtube or something. Its a new word to call your parents. Big on social media and with online therapy. Dysfunctional kids eat up the word.</p><p></p><p>I don't believe it is possible to get the fiction out of our kid's heads. Their false memories partly happen because of who they are. They have to lie to themselves, just like they lie to everyone else, and they have to be right too. I don't try to talk sensibly to Kay on a rant. Waste of my time. She isn't willing to give up her false thinking even while calm. She won't concede she may be a little wrong. I hope your kids are different.</p><p></p><p>I don't know if Kay and I will ever reconcile. I am done eating her crow. I refuse to hear her out when she means to be cruel or spouts conspiracy theories. I cant imagine how listening to her being abusive or out if touch with reality will help her recover. i just say I have to get off the phone. I am not going to enable childish behavior, mean dialogue or delusional thinking. I do not demean her ever. It is not my nature to yell or call names. But I also won't listen with respect while she is mean or nonsensical. But to have a relationship with Kay means I have to take whatever she dishes out and it literally makes me ill. I can not.</p><p></p><p>I put up with more when I was younger. Now I want to block it out. I want to travel with my husband in our camper and maybe also overseas. I want to enjoy Amy and her kids and my son whom I will call Rick. I want to start bird watching and sing in the church choir and chill out. I don't want drama in my life anymore. I don't want the negativity of Kay.</p><p></p><p>I hope one day Kay sees her life differently and changes. But until then, this is what I've gotten from her since her teens. And now I can no longer handle it.</p><p></p><p>God bless.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 751951, member: 23706"] I don't believe Kay knows what narcissist means. She heard it on Youtube or something. Its a new word to call your parents. Big on social media and with online therapy. Dysfunctional kids eat up the word. I don't believe it is possible to get the fiction out of our kid's heads. Their false memories partly happen because of who they are. They have to lie to themselves, just like they lie to everyone else, and they have to be right too. I don't try to talk sensibly to Kay on a rant. Waste of my time. She isn't willing to give up her false thinking even while calm. She won't concede she may be a little wrong. I hope your kids are different. I don't know if Kay and I will ever reconcile. I am done eating her crow. I refuse to hear her out when she means to be cruel or spouts conspiracy theories. I cant imagine how listening to her being abusive or out if touch with reality will help her recover. i just say I have to get off the phone. I am not going to enable childish behavior, mean dialogue or delusional thinking. I do not demean her ever. It is not my nature to yell or call names. But I also won't listen with respect while she is mean or nonsensical. But to have a relationship with Kay means I have to take whatever she dishes out and it literally makes me ill. I can not. I put up with more when I was younger. Now I want to block it out. I want to travel with my husband in our camper and maybe also overseas. I want to enjoy Amy and her kids and my son whom I will call Rick. I want to start bird watching and sing in the church choir and chill out. I don't want drama in my life anymore. I don't want the negativity of Kay. I hope one day Kay sees her life differently and changes. But until then, this is what I've gotten from her since her teens. And now I can no longer handle it. God bless. [/QUOTE]
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