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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 760539" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>You see the writing on the wall, you accept it, and you choose to let him go.</p><p></p><p>You have written it yourself, more than once, that your son will keep pushing until he gets what he wants. He will win.</p><p></p><p>He is getting worse now. What you are saying is that it is a mixed bag either way. In some ways at your home, he's worse. In some ways at his Dad's, he will be worse.</p><p></p><p>I am wondering if there are other factors involved here. Like your feelings about your ex. Lingering conflict or bad feelings (which would be normal, given his problems.) Or whether you are trying to control a situation where you really don't have any control (which means you are in the exact same boat as all of the rest of us here.)</p><p></p><p>The keywords here are: <strong><em>Accepting</em></strong> reality.<strong><em> Letting go. </em></strong>Both of these are<em><strong> in you</strong></em>, not your son, and not the situation.</p><p></p><p>All of us here know how hard this is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 760539, member: 18958"] You see the writing on the wall, you accept it, and you choose to let him go. You have written it yourself, more than once, that your son will keep pushing until he gets what he wants. He will win. He is getting worse now. What you are saying is that it is a mixed bag either way. In some ways at your home, he's worse. In some ways at his Dad's, he will be worse. I am wondering if there are other factors involved here. Like your feelings about your ex. Lingering conflict or bad feelings (which would be normal, given his problems.) Or whether you are trying to control a situation where you really don't have any control (which means you are in the exact same boat as all of the rest of us here.) The keywords here are: [B][I]Accepting[/I][/B] reality.[B][I] Letting go. [/I][/B]Both of these are[I][B] in you[/B][/I], not your son, and not the situation. All of us here know how hard this is. [/QUOTE]
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