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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 760547" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>Thank you everyone. It's just this is all new to me where hes actually going to live with him. No, it wouldnt be a couple weeks, or months, it will be permanent. With the situation being the way it is at his dads, it's like sending a Theme Park Enthusiast to live at various parks. Itll never get old or too much for either. I dont have a great example here, but, I know. </p><p></p><p>So, I'm trying to coordinate everything for him to go quickly. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="😔" title="Pensive face :pensive:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f614.png" data-shortname=":pensive:" /></p><p>I just feel hurt, confused, frustrated,</p><p>worried for him, etc.</p><p></p><p>I got used to my ex controlling me, (I'm not getting into it ) as my family being that way in the past. Yes, it's never forgotten but I didnt want to live with all that in my heart. I have brought it up just compare and say what went on and be like how was or is this fair etc.</p><p>I'm too old to be holding grudges for that long. When my ex and get along it's great. </p><p></p><p>So after he goes I have to figure out how to move on from the pain of him being there. The fear and worrying of him we I'll never stop no matter where he lives or how old he is, as is the same for my daughter. </p><p>Isnt that how a parent is supposed to be?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 760547, member: 18100"] Thank you everyone. It's just this is all new to me where hes actually going to live with him. No, it wouldnt be a couple weeks, or months, it will be permanent. With the situation being the way it is at his dads, it's like sending a Theme Park Enthusiast to live at various parks. Itll never get old or too much for either. I dont have a great example here, but, I know. So, I'm trying to coordinate everything for him to go quickly. 😔 I just feel hurt, confused, frustrated, worried for him, etc. I got used to my ex controlling me, (I'm not getting into it ) as my family being that way in the past. Yes, it's never forgotten but I didnt want to live with all that in my heart. I have brought it up just compare and say what went on and be like how was or is this fair etc. I'm too old to be holding grudges for that long. When my ex and get along it's great. So after he goes I have to figure out how to move on from the pain of him being there. The fear and worrying of him we I'll never stop no matter where he lives or how old he is, as is the same for my daughter. Isnt that how a parent is supposed to be? [/QUOTE]
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